i guess no1 can answer this question proply because u dont no me but every guy i seem to like always seem really nice and then once i start getting to a bit closer to them ( i let them go after me coz i am a woman who thinks the man should chase the woman) they just turn horrible to me and i dont no why?
2006-12-03 10:55:24 · 7 answers · asked by lindsay g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just give ppl a chance...not everyone is the wrong person..just give them a chance...u never know the outcome...ppl have their own opinons about dating...and if u think their the wrong person dont waste ur time...but what if its the right persona nd u just dont know it...thats y there are chances...cause it helps in many ways!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2006-12-03 11:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by * 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I used to be attracted to the wrong guys for a long time, until I started to think about what it was.
The first thing to do is to look at what kind of environment you grew up in. To give you an example: I grew up with a dad who beat my mom up everytime he got mad. So I got comfortable with that situation and unconsciously looked for the same type of man(but not anymore!). Once I realized that was I able to observe signs that indicated the possibility of the man being violent. This is not easy, and a lot of women will have to get the help of a counselor, but it can be done. If you cannot afford any counseling, your local health department will be able to assist you at low or no cost.....Good luck
2006-12-03 19:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by What Will The Spill Kill? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't blame yourself for guys acting like jerks. There's not really enough info as to how they start acting or what the situation is, but it sounds like you've just met the wrong people. Keep dating and don't put up with being treated disrespectfully. Remember that you teach people how to treat you.
2006-12-03 19:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah....there could be something wrong with you if you keep finding the same kind of guy.
Maybe you need to stop for a while and start doing some work on yourself to find out why you keep doing that.
Continuing to get hurt is a message to you....you need to stop and find out what that message is.
2006-12-03 19:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person know themselves if you choose to look deep within yourself and figure out why you be doing the choosing you'll discover it isn't the man
2006-12-03 18:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry someday mr right will come along dont give up theres always that little useful word called dump just keep trying dont give up someday someone will come along
2006-12-03 19:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by Lizzy<33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like them, tell them, man need to know, dont wait for them to ask....ggod luck
2006-12-03 19:01:39 · answer #7 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋