Family & Relationships - 1 December 2006

When the relationship is new, they have no trouble saying what they feel. Then, they get a little more involved, and they clam up. If they don't speak up, they might lose out on real love. Why would someone settle for less?

2006-12-01 14:34:53 · 15 answers · asked by flip4it 4 in Singles & Dating

5 years ago my aunt passed away, and her daughter had just gave birth to a baby boy. I think at the time we wanted to stop being sad and turned all our attention on the baby especially my mom. She keeps him every saturday night, and now that she has had another baby she goes over to there house all the time and I have been in my house for a year and she has been here 4 times. Also I have a step daughter who has lived with us for 4 years and is her grandaughter and just a month ago was the first time she ever spent the night. I understand wanting to help with your sisters kids, but has it went overboard?

2006-12-01 14:34:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What is your favorite kind of underwear to wear? Thong, g-string, v-string, panties, etc.

2006-12-01 14:33:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now and im still having problems with trusting him because of something he did 8 months ago. im big against cheating in any form and he had been having internet sex with someone he knew from school. he told me not to long after and said he completely stopped and he felt horrible about what he had done. in that point in time i gave him a second chance because i felt like it was something i would forget over time. now being 8 months after the account i still feel distrusting in him even though he has entirely changed and i am perfectly happy with the way things are. it seems like there’s always a little voice telling me he might do it again even though he does nothing bad. i feel like i owe it to him to be more trusting as it was just one mistake and he never did it again but i can’t let go of the grudge. it’s driving me insane. has anyone else gone through something like this? can anyone help?

2006-12-01 14:33:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does a guy like you if he like talks to you and steals your stuff but is like cute about it. He also smiles after he does it?

2006-12-01 14:32:52 · 18 answers · asked by piro334 1 in Singles & Dating

another woman,while doning it with your wife?Lets say your married more 10 yrs and love your wife but...

2006-12-01 14:32:09 · 5 answers · asked by broken heart 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i know this is funny. But i do really want to know the most appropriate way to ask a girl out.

2006-12-01 14:31:18 · 10 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Singles & Dating

My three-year boyfriend and I have broken up for more than a year. We got separated and now things kinda getting back to normal, (i mean we're already in speaking terms with each other and we're kinda building on a good friendship). He was the one who broke up with me. He was on and off getting back at me when we broke up but I refused because i thought he wasnt ready. Lately I got sick and I nearly died, after that he hasnt stopped visiting me, calling me, and no amount of NO could shooo him away from me. I told him I don't want anything serious with him anymore but he still said he'd try anyway. I still have feelings for him but I'm too scared to get into the relationship. He asked me if we could get married after i graduate from college so he could bring me to another country where he plans to work, i was caught off guard because we're not even back to boyfriend-girlfriend mode yet but he is opening up a lot of future plans with me.

2006-12-01 14:31:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a friend of mine has proclamed his love for a 16 yo girl. she is sweet, funny, smart, etc (his words) the problem is first of all he is 25! And its his bosses daughter!!!! I have tried to talk reason into him by saying that he should wait until she is out of school and if it is meant to be it can be then. I know they have NOT had sex. But how can i get him to see reason on this. He is jeopardizing his work rep and personal rep. most of our friends are no longer speaking to him. I dont want to do that I feel I need to be here for him when it does crash around him. What should i say to him to get him to see reason on this. And please yes i already know its wrong and yes i have already told him this

2006-12-01 14:29:57 · 16 answers · asked by t 4 in Singles & Dating

My three-year boyfriend and I have broken up for more than a year. We got separated and now things kinda getting back to normal, (i mean we're already in speaking terms with each other and we're kinda building on a good friendship). He was the one who broke up with me. He was on and off getting back at me when we broke up but I refused because i thought he wasnt ready. Lately I got sick and I nearly died, after that he hasnt stopped visiting me, calling me, and no amount of NO could shooo him away from me. I told him I don't want anything serious with him anymore but he still said he'd try anyway. I still have feelings for him but I'm too scared to get into the relationship. He asked me if we could get married after i graduate from college so he could bring me to another country where he plans to work, i was caught off guard because we're not even back to boyfriend-girlfriend mode yet but he is opening up a lot of future plans with me.

2006-12-01 14:29:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

everytime i pass her in the hallway she smiles at me and says hi?

2006-12-01 14:29:36 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she seems scared of him but doesnt really say anything to him, and when she does, he doesnt listen to her. Last night we had to go help her after my husband got home from work because my father in law refused to go help her and left her stranded in a parking lot.. how do we confront him about his behavior before my 2 year old picks up on his behavior to much more?

2006-12-01 14:29:25 · 13 answers · asked by shortyonwheelz2005 3 in Family

that he doesn't want a relationship but takes you out all the time. What's it mean when he says he "can't" love anyone but calls you all the time. Whats it mean when he says he'll never get married again but takes you on all kinds of trips and vacations. What's it mean when you ask if he loves you and he says no, but he holds you in his arms and he kisses you passionately and makes tender love with you? What's all the mixed signals?


P.S. The questions I ask aren't all about me - they come from different sources. : )

2006-12-01 14:29:13 · 21 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My brothers best friend and I are starting to "hook up" with each other. Do you think my brother would be mad if he found out?

2006-12-01 14:28:37 · 22 answers · asked by Callie J 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are married for a year and a half we are a young couple im 21 and he's 27, my husband is a sweetheart he's never cheated on me he loves me for who I am he support me through all my time of depressions and my low self-esteem problems, he was always there for me financly when I wasnt working. My husband is not the brightest person he never attented college, his family doent care about him and he is a little goofy sometimes embarrassing at times I know at times he wants to do better but he gets lazy and stubborn at times and that bugs me alot, since im very ambitious and im planning on attending college he decided to change carrer so I could go to school and not work so hard,we currently live with my parents my mother thought I got married too early and she wanted me to marry a college grad with money so no matter how much I try to explain how much he is a good man and how good he treats me, but it doesnt matter to her so I treat me like **** and verbally abuse him :(

2006-12-01 14:28:37 · 10 answers · asked by Suzan n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know it's hard to believe,...sigh... but I have a crush on my cousin,seriously...sigh....
I have a crush on him since I'm 19 years old.And now i'm 21 years old, I don't know what to do! I know we're just cousins and we can't stay together but when he grows older,his face becomes much cuter!!
I haven't seen much of him because when I'm 21 years old I went to hong kong to study.We went to philippines and stay there on vacation and we meet again.When I talk to him,I always stutter.

I could really need some help and some advise.

2006-12-01 14:27:03 · 4 answers · asked by Hannah M 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i used to like this dude uh........ i told a girl because she really wanted to know who i liked and now she added him. which is pretty sad.................... can he tell that we talk about him?

we weren’t staring at him but ever since then he didn’t look at me any more. so i don’t get it.

2006-12-01 14:26:22 · 8 answers · asked by Female 4 in Singles & Dating

when i don't want to have sex with him. he get mad at me and then he just start hitting on me cause he peace off at me but he say he dont like hitting me i just do stupied things to make him hit me.

2006-12-01 14:25:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this friend who doesnt know who she is and its killing her that she doesnt know wut to do about herself and she always gets hurt by people and gets walked all over by others and she tryes so hard to make others happy and she isnt. she is tired of hurting and wants 2 be happy but doesnt know how the only time she was happy was when she was wt this guy for a year and lost him over drugs and she has had a real hard life and she doesnt know wut to do about the guys that are in love wt her and that like like her and she hates breaking there hearts and plus shes in love wt me and i have a gurlfriend and it kills her cuz she said that when she met me she was actually happy i met her in 7th period spanish and we started from there n e wayz can u give me advice plz and thanks

2006-12-01 14:25:19 · 2 answers · asked by Bouncer 2 in Singles & Dating

there's a boy that i like and my best friend asked him if he likes me..(they are good friends). he said yes.. then he asked him if he would date me.. then he said maybe.. so i didnt know he asked that questions that day so i started flurting with him more than i usually do to try to give him hints that i like him.. and he was flurting with me.. but he gets really shy to me.. but when im not around hes not at all.. he smiles at me all the time and talks all the time.. ask how i am and how ive been and what i ben up to.. he asked me if i was single.. and my best friend told me that he said he was shy arounfd me..

- what does this mean?
-Does he like me?
-Do i need to make the first move?
-Is he going to make the first move?
-What do i do?
-Do i need to tall him strit up that i like him?
-Do i ask him if he likes me?

.... please help
- Do

2006-12-01 14:24:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 14:24:18 · 26 answers · asked by charsky 1 in Singles & Dating

I have another question regarding child support, just so I understand how everything works. I live in Citrus Heights, California and just finished court orders for my son. The father and I are to pay 50% of all necessary medical, dental, or vision expense, etc. I have sole physical and legal custody of my son and father has 0% timeshare. Judge ordered support to be paid by wage assignment and to pay $486 per month commencing on 9/1/06 and arrearage in the sum of $25.00 per month till paid in full commencing on 1/1/07. So I'm confused? Is the $25.00 like interest from the back support he was suppost to start paying 9/1/06? THat's why it's PIF aka pay in full? Just trying to plan for my son's future, because his support will go in a trust fund for him towards high school, college, etc.

2006-12-01 14:22:31 · 5 answers · asked by hollyramage3 1 in Family

DOes this make sence to you? I had a frend tell me this the other week. If you are already married then wont that come first? I guess what they are tring to say is that after you get divorced that you will again be married (but to adifferent person). who comes up with these saings?! I thoaght about it 4 times but it don't make no sence to me! Help!

2006-12-01 14:21:18 · 9 answers · asked by Sate H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he says he wants me and enjoy my company, but theres always an excuse [that doesn't involve us ]on why we should'nt get married. i feel like im in a dead end relationship,HE DOESN'T UNDERSTAND WHY I AM MAD AT HIM AND DON'T WANT TO SEE HIM ANYMORE.I REALLY WANTED HIM TO BE MY HUSBAND WE WERE GREAT TOGETHER. IS IT BEST THAT I LEAVE HIM ALONE. AM I WRONG?

2006-12-01 14:21:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Now me and my girl broke up like 3 weeks ago. Come to find out a week and a half ago she started kicking it with this guy from work. Now here is the thing. I am 29, she is 21, and he is like 17-18. She says he is just a friend and nothing is going on between them. she says that he likes her but she already told him she is not ready for a relaitonship because she is not sure if we are going to work things out or not. But yet she kicks it with him all the time and things of that nature. I think something is going on... but hten again he is 18 and lives with his parents so it is possible nothing is happening... what should i believe? She says she misses me and doesnt think it is over between us... but she is spending so much time with him... what do I do. I love her more than anything

2006-12-01 14:20:51 · 22 answers · asked by lost_93710 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in gr12...last year....and still havent met my love...
I mean ok, sometimes i am a bit unsociable but i am a REALLY nice guy.... all of my friends and girls say that....

There is this one girl...
she talks to me when we see each other...smile at me..when i dress up she tells me i look nice ...... theres one time i was walking home and there was a girl waving at me she was like "so u live here too?" so we walked and she told me some of her background
she sees me as a friend right? (...she usually talk to me 1st)
does she think of me like a younger bro or something?

THen theres the my crush...
i dont think she likes me that much..... she tells me about her personal life issues, etc
You can say im crazy over her
I want to protect her with all my might i want to carry/take away all of her burdens..
Nowadays... i cant seem to go on a day without thinking of her...

How can i make her like me back?
She IS the most beautful girl ...i wanna live with her till death.....

2006-12-01 14:17:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please dont judge me too harshly for this question...yea i know i am asking for it...but do you think i am good looking? my picture is on my yahoo 360 space in my profile and in my blog. vote yes or no and please explain why..haha oh man this should be fun....this is not to be full of myself it is an experiment...thank you kindly in advance for your time

2006-12-01 14:17:42 · 5 answers · asked by super steve 3 in Singles & Dating

what is the best way to get a honest answer out of him.....how do i get him to admit all his crime to me without telling him i know or asking him.....i'm afraid if i ask him he will lie right to my face should i call the other women and or email them and ask them or should i just deal with ""MY"" man?

amber

2006-12-01 14:17:15 · 9 answers · asked by bigbill 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 14:16:59 · 7 answers · asked by bluepacificbeach 1 in Singles & Dating

I need a bf real bad know1 in mind but some cathchy tips any1

2006-12-01 14:16:48 · 31 answers · asked by Aoumous 1 in Singles & Dating