what is the best way to get a honest answer out of him.....how do i get him to admit all his crime to me without telling him i know or asking him.....i'm afraid if i ask him he will lie right to my face should i call the other women and or email them and ask them or should i just deal with ""MY"" man?
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2006-12-01 14:17:15 · 9 answers · asked by bigbill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Send him a email and act like the girl in the e-mail and see what he tells you. Can you text him? You text him to "meet Me" someplace and see if he shows up.
2006-12-01 14:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by Carlos D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, if you have to walk on eggshells, and be leary about confronting him, then how good is the communication in the marriage? not good at all. and thats the key to a healthy relationship, so thats a point loss right there. And for him to cheat on you, thats a disgrace, you need to comfront him, if he lies, show the proof, if he still denies is, call him a liar, dont let the man get away with it. if you think hes cheating, ask him. so he lie about it.. so what ask anyway. but if you know for a fact and sounds like u do, then just confront him about it, and figure how much your marriage is worth salavaging. dont take him back with no remorse, let him feel your pain, and seek counsiling. if he loves you, he would go to marriage counsiling for his cheating ways. and try to get help. so you can both overcome this because it is very heartbreaking. but u cant act like nothing happend. flowers wont cut it. chocolate wont either. maybe a bag of cheetos.. lol..
2006-12-01 14:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It truly relies upon on the state in which you stay. even though it appears like a divorce should be quite painless (as a lot as one will be) becuase there are youngsters and if you're filing for financial disaster it doesn't sound like there are any resources to strive against over. purely be sensible that you do not get stuck with each and every of the debt both. The state you lives in concerns because some (and maximum) are not any fault states, which signifies that it doesn't remember if he's deceptive or no longer. yet some are fault states, and if so, get and save a duplicate of the e-mail, texts, and so on. to educate he's deceptive. it would want to point extra money contained in the right. if you're actually not operating and he has been the completed technique of help then with a educated lawyer try to be able to get some alimony. probable will be rehabilitative - which ability it is going to likely be barely adequate and receives it lengthy adequate that you'll get interest preparation and a job. It isn't a lot even though it will be some which could assist you get on your ft. each and every state and maximum counties have a legal help workplace which could assist you ruin up for little and fairly some the time no money, fantastically in case you have not any earnings. seem into public housing, they provide you with an section to stay in accordance such as your earnings, and in view that you're literally not operating, you could in various of circumstances get an section for free (yet might want to might want to finished a touch community service hours and perchance none in any respect if you're worrying for an ill make sure). you're mom should be getting social secuirty disability reward if she isn't waiting to look after herself. this provide you with some earnings to initiate and stay to inform the tale. And even though it really is by no ability large to ask for help, church homes and foodstuff stamps are there as a secure practices internet which could assist you get decrease back on your ft. it really is a problematical subject for you at the moment and modify is by no ability large yet when he doesn't pick to be married to you any extra then you might want to bypass on with out him and be grateful that you do not have children mutually and for this reason do not might want to work out him again. Divorce is by no ability welcomed. i'm sorry that you're having to bypass by this. I wish you luck.
2016-11-30 01:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are many ways of dealing with this. If you really wanna get technical about it, check his Credit card statements, Cell phone or home phone, and dial last number, or look around in his pockets to see if he has phone numbers, in them. I bet you might find #'s all over his bedroom if you really have time to snoop. But all in all if you have doubts, chuck him.
2006-12-01 14:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even married to this man? He will probably never own up to it. I bet he tells you that you are imagining things. I'm sure it has affected your self esteem. You have no marriage, you need to get out.
2006-12-01 14:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure if this exactly answers your question but put bengay in his underware you might get some phone calls from the other party if they do have sex it burns like hell
2006-12-01 14:22:31 · answer #6 · answered by lilloric 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.don't play games, go right to him and let him know what you know and tell him to fess up or get out.......then boot him out any way.
2006-12-01 15:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Becky ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater ! they will both lie ! good luck !
2006-12-01 14:51:22 · answer #8 · answered by Barbie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poke a hole in his condoms and put itching powder in his underwear.
2006-12-01 14:22:33 · answer #9 · answered by sheepshanx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋