2006-12-01 14:16:59 · 7 answers · asked by bluepacificbeach 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure you can ever have that trust again as it was the first time - pure and innocent. You will always want to protect yourself and hold back just a little bit of yourself until she proves that she is not like the woman who hurt you.
It takes a lot of time and a lot of patience to learn to trust anyone again. You can do it, but expect "flash backs" when she says something to trigger a bad memory.
2006-12-01 14:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That trust can only come from inside your own mind. Noone else could ever assure you that you would never meet another cheating woman again. Your best weapon is being VERY careful and questioning their past before you get too close.
2006-12-01 14:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way we learn to trust men...one at a time, one day at a time, and try not to judge the next one according to what the last one did. You have to constantly put it behind you, make sure you're not contributing to it in any way, and pray the next one doesn't do the same. You just take a chance!
2006-12-01 14:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by Mike's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can, but only after you've accepted that everyone does that. It takes time and you'll eventually find a girl that will not cheat on you.
2006-12-01 14:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by Sharon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't, its going to be a lonely life. Trust his earned and next time be more judicious with your feelings. But believe me, you'll meet someone who you want to trust again. Do it, slowly, but do it.
2006-12-01 14:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by dcbongo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its like everything ESL, some do some don't. when you find the real one you"ll know you can trust her, shell be the one who will do any thing for you.
2006-12-01 15:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Becky ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course, CAN.
The only THREE ways:
1st. ----> Cheat her 1st.
2nd. ----> Love being cheat.
3rd. ----> Open relationship.
Which 1 you choose.
2006-12-01 14:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋