2006-12-01 14:24:18 · 26 answers · asked by charsky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find your own "other stuff" to do
2006-12-01 14:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by aj 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make yourself busy too. When I had a boyfriend, I had a hobby of doing arts & crafts and he would lay on the bed and stare at me like a lost pathetic puppy. He'd be so bored and always wanted my attention. Girls don't always like that. I hooked him up with a gaming system and then he could play games while I did arts and crafts, then it was a happy world. But if she is busy don't whine for her, be cool and get your own hobby and make yourself busy. By doing this, she will be right back in your arms in a second. Trust us girls on this one! :)
2006-12-01 14:26:30 · answer #2 · answered by ananswerer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, then stay with her, create a busy life and learn to love what you do, and enjoy the time with her. If she doesn't make enough time to be with you and you clearly want more from her, let her go and find someone else. Either way, make sure you have fun and enjoy yourself on your own and try to develop your own interests and stuff.
2006-12-01 14:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by Alex G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First tell her how you wish she would spend more time with you whether it be you helping her with the business she has to take care of or other quality time. If she declines and tells you she doesn't want to....go out, try to have fun though it may prove difficult and hope she will start spending more time with you...If she never does and thats what you want out of a relashionship, find someone who will provide what YOU want don't settle for less :-)
2006-12-01 14:30:01 · answer #4 · answered by thicknsexy954 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Act like you don't care. Do your own thing. My bet says that when she starts feeling like she's not the "be all, end all" in your life anymore, she'll jump through hoops to try to get back there.
Or she might dump you, but at least you'll have an answer!
2006-12-01 14:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by mrtoddanson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should get busy with stuff too- then when she wants you, you will be occupied. Talk to her honestly about it is an option as well. Don't sit around waiting for her.
2006-12-01 14:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by soberlunatic 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do some of the stuff for her "if possible" so she doesn't have to spend her time doing it. Also, try doing it with her.
2006-12-01 14:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by saulsebastianstudio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's always busy doing things/stuff for your future.
ask her if this is the case...
2006-12-01 14:34:11 · answer #8 · answered by dodadz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out wit your friendz and when shes finished wit everything then ask her if she wants 2 do something. just the 2 of u. :)
2006-12-01 14:41:28 · answer #9 · answered by Bleed!ng Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good girlfriend should always be able to find time for her boy!
2006-12-01 14:26:14 · answer #10 · answered by Nisey B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her and find one that would pay more attention to you than to other stuff!
2006-12-01 14:26:44 · answer #11 · answered by Nikolas S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋