My husband and I are married for a year and a half we are a young couple im 21 and he's 27, my husband is a sweetheart he's never cheated on me he loves me for who I am he support me through all my time of depressions and my low self-esteem problems, he was always there for me financly when I wasnt working. My husband is not the brightest person he never attented college, his family doent care about him and he is a little goofy sometimes embarrassing at times I know at times he wants to do better but he gets lazy and stubborn at times and that bugs me alot, since im very ambitious and im planning on attending college he decided to change carrer so I could go to school and not work so hard,we currently live with my parents my mother thought I got married too early and she wanted me to marry a college grad with money so no matter how much I try to explain how much he is a good man and how good he treats me, but it doesnt matter to her so I treat me like **** and verbally abuse him :(
2006-12-01 14:28:37 · 10 answers · asked by Suzan n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it seems like you need to let your parents know that you are in love with this man, you are married to this man and they should respect your decision...i have went through the same things as you...i love my husband very much and at first my family didn't like him but i let them know he is my choice, they could love him like they love me or not...but i was staying with him no matter what....don't let anyone bring you down...go to college...if you love him you will quit being mean to him...it was your choice to marry him...you can get through anything you set your mind to
2006-12-01 14:33:00 · answer #1 · answered by moaehahi1979 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents aren't going to change. You probably can't move out of your parents house because it is financially impossible. He is probably not thrilled at living in your parents house and probably feels guilty that you have to.
You need to make sure your husband knows that you love and appreciate him. Take charge of your finances and SAVE whatever you can. Key is to either save or to minimize any college debt that you will accumulate. Goal is to get on your own with him as soon as you can.... may be years, but you must be working toward that goal EVERY DAY. Your focus on the goal will sustain you both.
Good luck.
2006-12-01 14:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really need to be out on your own. A 27 yr old should NOT be living with his inlaws...that's just a conflict waiting to happen no matter how great the guy is.
2006-12-01 14:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some money together and move out. Your parents are trying to influence you to get what they have- but unfortunately, her distorted views of what you "deserve" are uncalled for. your mother will finally get the point when she realizes she is hurting you.
2006-12-01 14:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by soberlunatic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um... living with other family causes stress and conflict... see if u guys can find a cheap apartment.. and go from there... your husband sounds lovely.. dont evr leave him...
2006-12-01 14:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by Rhyhaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to your mom how much you love him.
2006-12-01 14:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
true love is hard to come by listen to your heart love him
2006-12-01 14:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by k dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your loved ones to mind their own business !
2006-12-01 14:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by Barbie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY WAKE UP YOU ARE OLD ENOGH TO GIVE THESE PEOPLE A PEACE OF YOUR MIND. IF THEY CAN'T DEAL WITH THAT TOUGH AND IF THEY CONTINUE TO BE BELIGERANT THAN TELL EM SHOVE IT.
2006-12-01 14:41:10 · answer #9 · answered by Primus Amare 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please, move out and have a place of your own, only then you can be happy,
2006-12-01 14:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by Diana J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋