he says he wants me and enjoy my company, but theres always an excuse [that doesn't involve us ]on why we should'nt get married. i feel like im in a dead end relationship,HE DOESN'T UNDERSTAND WHY I AM MAD AT HIM AND DON'T WANT TO SEE HIM ANYMORE.I REALLY WANTED HIM TO BE MY HUSBAND WE WERE GREAT TOGETHER. IS IT BEST THAT I LEAVE HIM ALONE. AM I WRONG?
2006-12-01 14:21:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are not wrong based on the info you have offered! I think you should treat yourself to a spa treatment, go out with some female friends and start dating again... life is too short for idiots!
2006-12-01 14:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Husbands can not be bought and neither should they be forced to become one. Instead try this:
Find someone who wants what you want, but want it at the same time. Therefore, it will be: Two people going in the same direction at the same time trying to accomplish the same goal.
Most relationships fail because there's two people wanting two different things for two different reasons. And they end up in battles like yours trying to see who is right and who is wrong.
You're not wrong for wanting what you want. But you will only be hurting yourself to stick around and frustrate yourself to think that he will over night decide that he wants to be married. Listen to him and hear him clearly, he does not want to be married at this time.
Can you settle for less than this?
2006-12-01 22:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should find out why he doesn't want to marry....sometimes the answer is simple but it also may be complicated. find out as much as you can and decide according them. then maybe give him an altimatum before moving on. good luck...
2006-12-01 22:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and find a real man next time, kiddo.
2006-12-01 22:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by johngolfs2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on....there are too many men who would LOVE to be in a relationship with you....that's who you want....not this guy....be strong...and look elsewhere,
2006-12-01 22:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋