I recently became paralyzed. I know people around me care, but if I tell them I'm ok, they just don't listen to me. I was scared being paralyzed would change me, but friends have told me I'm still the same person - as did the guy I love. But earlier, I got drunk and the guy who's told me more than anyone, I'm still the same person, has made me feel like a complete stranger. He treated me more differently tonight than any other time, and talked to me like I was a child, telling me not to get drunk etc, mainly because I had a headache and stuff - before the paralysis, this wouldn't have bothered him. I feel like he's going to be like that every time I feel ill, or any other time I get drunk etc...I love him, (and my friends too) but I don't think I can handle being lectured or questioned everytime I do something I "shouldn't" simply cause I'm not sure how to. Why is he seeing me differently now? And how do I handle the change in how people talk to me and behave toward me, especially him?
2006-12-01
15:11:28
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