I find myself actracted to men emotionally and physically. So i guess that would make me gay. I am not sure if that is ok. I mean i want to tell my friends but is it okay... and what about my family..
2006-12-01 15:12:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Of course it is okay... It will probably be hard for you to tell them. But they love you, so don't worry, they will support you. And don't worry, it is Okay.
2006-12-01 15:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Stark 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being gay is definitely okay, it's perfectly natural, and when it comes to telling your friends and family...
It will depend on your friends and your family's view on homosexuality.
You may want to get some solid info about it before coming out.
I hope things turn out well for you,
Aloha,
Dave
2006-12-04 17:01:35 · answer #2 · answered by Zack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally ok.
Don't let any ignorant person tell you otherwise.
It WILL be a huge surprise to your friends and family, and there's usually a "shock period" after you come out of the closet, so to speak. People close to you need an adjustment time.
When one of my friends came out to his parents, he also left just after he told them and spent a few days at my place just so they had time to take it all in and adjust.
So when you're ready to deal with the possibility of losing your friends when you tell them (although, they aren't friends to begin with if they're dumping you over your sexual preference) and having your parents be a little freaked out, then tell them.
Just don't feel bad about your sexual preference.
It's who you are.
And if they won't accept you the way you are, then they shouldn't be a part of your life anyway.
2006-12-01 15:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you believe there is a GOD then you could not even ask such a question. GOD forbids such action. Man was created then woman was created for man. Man was not created for man nor was woman created for woman. It was wrong in Sodom (Genesis) and we have not been told otherwise since that time. Please read and study the Bible there are a number of places that you can search for appropriate verses to answer any question that you have. I use the King James Bible and Bible Gateway is a great site to read/study from. We all sin. We are told that "all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God". That does not mean that you want to die in a sinful state. Get yourself right with GOD! Have a great holiday.
Eds
2006-12-01 15:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by Eds 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I Am so it fine as long as you don't Like anyone you know like your famliy or friends if you like friend that are stright they may have a problem with that
2006-12-01 16:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by Jacob 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Political correctness is gay, but it is also retarded.
So, homos are gay. Email me for my number.
2006-12-02 17:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Accept yourself no matter what you are. It doesn't matter if you are gay, bi, confused, curious, grey, purple, young, old etc. Just be who you are and love yourself. You can't please everyone and people will go around judging eachother whether we like it or not. I wish you the best.
2006-12-02 17:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If that's your bag - and you don't have to tell anyone if you don't want to.
2006-12-01 15:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋