Family & Relationships - 1 December 2006

2006-12-01 15:55:03 · 6 answers · asked by miarose g 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please help! My husband is extremely lazy. We have two small children and i need more help. I work full time, go to school full time, and constantly clean my house when I am home. I have given up on even trying to get him to work up the initiative to do household chores, but it absolutely drives me crazy that he won't even pick up after himself! He leaves anything he touches on the floor- dirty diapers, dishes, clothes, etc. I clean my house every morning before I go to school and work. When I get home my house is absolutely trashed! So, instead of getting to spend time with my family, I have to clean the entire house when I get home. I don't think its right to make my children live in filth. He also stays up late and dirties the house again while I'm asleep. When I'm home with the kids I get house work done. So why can't he? I have tried asking nicely for him to help. I have begged, pleaded, cried and screamed. Nothing works! How can i get him to help me? I am considering divorce.

2006-12-01 15:55:01 · 34 answers · asked by sarah s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been talking to one of my really good (girl) friends the last couple days and she told me that she likes people on and off sometimes...at the end of every conversation I ask her who fo you like today? and she says me......Do you think she's telling the truth about the on and off thing or do you think she likes me perminately? My im is baseballdude1717 if you wanna talk or somtin..imsually on at about 10-10 30...

2006-12-01 15:54:29 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 15:53:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been seein this girl at college but reciently moved away.We wernt dating but like on the verge of it. I was jokin around with her that i'd get her a vibrator, and i think she really wants one. Would this ensure that she wont be messin around or do you think it'll get her rilled up to get some. I also was thinkin if i get it for her shed think of me when she used it. Im just tryin to stay in the picture right now since i cant acutally be there

2006-12-01 15:53:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 15:53:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 15:53:11 · 5 answers · asked by Clayton B 2 in Friends

What is the most romantic date you have ever been on?.you would feel like you want to touch the stars in the sky.

2006-12-01 15:52:44 · 4 answers · asked by tamara 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has been living with me since 2003. I am tired of this relationship already. His controling and lately we been arguing alot. I really want to leave him. But when I tell him to leave, he ignores me and the next day when I wake up his sleeping in the livingroom. What should I do? I want for him to move out. Because I'm paying rent,cars,and supporting our daugther.

2006-12-01 15:52:42 · 5 answers · asked by latina 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-01 15:52:14 · 10 answers · asked by called*to*love 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and rich were really close but all of a suddon he hates me and all he does it talk crap about me to my best friend. by the way me and sammie have been best friends for 7 years. anyway so its hurting sammie because she doesnt want to here it. today he was being a real loser to her and his away message said "do what you want i cant stop you" cause they dot in a fight. now to me thats impying he dont care about her. then i asked him about it and he blew up on me and said some of the meanest things anyone has ever said to me. to to get to the point, was it wrong of my to make sammie kind of pick between us, after what he did to her i dont think she or i should have to deal with hm bieng a loser to us. i feel bad making her kind of choose because i dont want to loose our friendship. but since they started going out he like doesnt let her talk to me and stuff. she doesn tknow what to do cause she thinks shes in love. shes 14 and it been 4 months i was like no. so no more space was it bad?

2006-12-01 15:52:04 · 12 answers · asked by COURTNEY xo SAYS 1 in Friends

He keeps saying he loves me he wants to be with me i told him to go live with one of his family members. In what other way do i tell him without feeling like im a total *****? I have told him we donot work well together and we need to move on? Im tired of dealing with him but i dont think i want to get the cops involved.

2006-12-01 15:51:56 · 9 answers · asked by saltynsassy3 1 in Singles & Dating

becuase my friend did that too me twice and she never did that to any of her male friends and also her freind likes me and when she saw that her friend was standing beside me she looked at me andi looked at her and then she looked down at the floor slowly like she was sad so does she like me(oh and i like her back) and then she asked me for a hug okay so does she like me

2006-12-01 15:51:40 · 8 answers · asked by Luis 4 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy... and I think he likes me. I try to act confident, and people think that I am confident, but I really am not:( I think he might ask me out if he found out I liked him though. Do you think if i got a few of my friends to spread a rumor that I liked him he would ask me out? Thanks:)

2006-12-01 15:51:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 15:51:07 · 23 answers · asked by Punjabi 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok my BF have a little brother who is one year younger then him. So his brother is going out with my bestfriend (she used to have a crush on my BF that im going out right now. She ask him out last months but he said no to she settled for his brother instead). My BF brother dumped her because he likes me .even though im still going out with his older brother. and now my bestfriend are mad at me and said that i took him away from her. And she is crazy about this guy. She cant get over him. IDK what to do with my bestfriend and my BF brother.

2006-12-01 15:48:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i don't kno if i should have lashed out @ him like i did he's one of my best friends & i told him off & now i feel sorry but i don't just wanna give up so easily

2006-12-01 15:48:29 · 5 answers · asked by hannahsbigfeet 3 in Friends

you find a guy that u thought was TOO GOOD, like nice, great looking, didn't swear or cuss, tall, athletic, sincere, and sensitve?? like a total goody two shoes??? and u though he had a thing for u cuz he could nvr look u in the eye w/o blushing.. and when he tried to talk to u he would stumble over his words... and THEN

u see him later after like... 2 weeks.. in the cafeteria... afterschool... looking like he told the biggest joke ever... and thers like 20 gurls standing ther laughing THAT laugh.. you kno??? and then when your walking to another school for basketball practice...

u see him and this lil brunette beauty walking up the same street... and then you see your mom drive up, and tells u she'll take u out for lunch b4 practice.. and then u hop in.. and then she starts 'talking loud' in the car saying that i dint leave a note that i was walking and i told her earlier that i told her b4 that i was walking this whole week... and then you both get super loud.. and then HE -

2006-12-01 15:47:39 · 1 answers · asked by Rhyhaina 2 in Singles & Dating

i think for me since im fat no matter how nice the clothes i wear i feel like a slob. is it my confidence. people say i look nice .. but i feel so horrible .. how to look attractive and feel attractive at the same time

2006-12-01 15:47:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I've had a problem over the past few years. It seems that every woman I attract seem to really like me a lot, but all of them are, in some form, on the rebound. I don't actively seek out women who've just gotten out of a relationship...it's just been my luck of the draw.

It's been much more frequent lately because I've developed the reputation as the "rebound man", like I'm sort sort of screwed-up superhero. I'm just a nice guy who seems to make these women feel special after their jerk ex-boyfriends trampled all over them, then when things start to feel a little too serious for them, they freak out and it's all over.

I've tried to be casual about these things, but more and more I've realized that I'm just not wired that way. I'm sick of being the relationship rehab counselor. I'm ready for something more; something with an unlimited shelf life.

I guess what I'm asking here is...has anyone else had this problem? If so, have you been able to break the cycle and how?

2006-12-01 15:47:11 · 2 answers · asked by randomthoughtpatterns 2 in Singles & Dating

gangsters?rockers,goths,emos,nerdy type,preps ect (feel free 2 add more)

and why????????

what kind of guy do you think i am?

2006-12-01 15:46:28 · 16 answers · asked by jason m 1 in Singles & Dating

Im going on my first date tomorrow. after i planned it with her on a 5 hour phonecall. any tips for a first date.

(besides be yourself lol, i got that one covered :])

2006-12-01 15:46:25 · 6 answers · asked by snkplayman 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to go on a girls night out with friends. I have done this once before & my husband got really mad. We have 4 kids & I never get to go out with the girls. And I already know that he is not going to watch the kids for me. He goes out every weekend & doesn;t come home till the next day. So how do you think I should handle this because I want to go out tomorrow night?

2006-12-01 15:45:52 · 11 answers · asked by tigrababy2000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me n my boyfriend have been dating for a month and like 1 week , and he told me that he finds other girls on myspace {cause we have a myspace} and messes with their heads and pretends to like them , and then in the end he says i was joking , exept he described what hed say to them in a meaner way. i told him that thats mean , but he said he gets a kick out of it. then.i was lookin at his comments and some girl asked if i was his gf { the girl that commented below her } and i told her yes . but then i called him and asked him who she was , and he said that he was messin with her head to make her think he liked her n ****. and was gonna d that thing mentioned earlier to her. but then she e mailed me and said that he denied us going out and said that we broke up and stuff like i broke up with him and i just wanted him back and stuff. well i told her that wasnt true .then she said that he gave her his phone number and asked to meet her.should i be worried that its not just a game?

2006-12-01 15:45:29 · 14 answers · asked by status_sweet 1 in Singles & Dating

She taught me how much I didn't know about playing piano. She had a big influence on my professional life and I would like to thank her.

2006-12-01 15:45:16 · 1 answers · asked by David A 7 in Friends

I don't have too much money and I dont know too much about what he likes cause all he talks about is his family. I want to get him something he will like though. hmm this is all I really know.
He likes to walk lol...
He likes to draw
He lisens to music (but I dont know what)
He is really shy

got any ideas

2006-12-01 15:44:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I see him often but I'm not sure if he is even interested in me. How do I find out if he is even open to a friendship?

2006-12-01 15:44:49 · 3 answers · asked by quietandcute 1 in Singles & Dating

yes it true. i have hard time finding dates. most men say . damn yr pretty but too bad yr fat .. if yr slimmer i mite have date u .. i was like ?????.... is it body all the important???some also said if i was skinner i would be gorgeous.. .. its such and insult... why are people so nasty and bias towards fat people.

2006-12-01 15:44:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

alright, well my boyfriends dad is in iraq right now. he has to serve for 4 months, possibly more. but he doesnt really get along with his mom. and his parents are divorced. once his dad gets back he's going to live with him. and his father lives further away from where we both live now. what would you do in a situation like that? i love my boyfriend to death and don't want to let him go, i just don't know what to do about a long distance relationship. we've been going out for 3 1/2 years off and on but on for long periods of time just little breaks in between the 3 times we've been going out. would you keep it going or just let him go?

2006-12-01 15:44:03 · 7 answers · asked by kitkat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex-boyfriend keeps calling me everynight. and although ive made it clear to him i dont want anything serious with him anymore he said he'd try anyway.. eventhough i told him to stop calling me.. he still calls.. whenever he calls me he opens up topics about the future where I plan to work, my plans after graduation, etc.. and then he popped up a proposal if we could get married right after my graduation.. so i told him we're not even back to girlfriend-boyfriend mode.. and im not sure if i still want "us".. i told him not to wait.. and to plan a future without me.. but it's not working.. lately he signed a contract in an immigration agency for the US.. he just have to take some examinations and within one and a half year he could migrate to the US.. and he is still telling me.. he wants me to go with him.. i asked him, "why would i go with you?".. he answered me "fiances can be considered an immediate family member and can be included in his migration"...

2006-12-01 15:43:38 · 15 answers · asked by evismea 1 in Family