I want to go on a girls night out with friends. I have done this once before & my husband got really mad. We have 4 kids & I never get to go out with the girls. And I already know that he is not going to watch the kids for me. He goes out every weekend & doesn;t come home till the next day. So how do you think I should handle this because I want to go out tomorrow night?
2006-12-01 15:45:52 · 11 answers · asked by tigrababy2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds a little controlling to me----i mean my fiancee used to do that and i would always give into him until i got fed up because i had no life with my friends--he always knew where i was at and who i was with, and he let me do stuuf with his friends and i hated it---i am really independent and i realized i was being controlled by a control freak who had double standards---so i stopped asking him and did it anyway----good luck girl, let him know that you will not stand for thisS*it!
2006-12-01 15:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your husband gets to go out every weekend and then gets mad at you for going out, he is a control freak. You do what he says or he gets mad? Um.... suggest some therapy and drop a line about how expensive divorces are if he doesn't shape up.
2006-12-01 23:50:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sugarshots 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is important for you to take a break from, "mommy-hood" so that you do not lose the person that you are. Take time for yourself each day...even if it is only ten minutes. How can you care for your children, if you do not care for yourself? You are raising four children, and you deserve a, "girls night out." Your spouse should be more understanding of your need for a break.
2006-12-02 00:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by Nut 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jsut keep doing what you're doing. It's not far that he gets to pull an all-nighter away from home while you're stuck with the kids. Find someone to babysit and have fun.
2006-12-02 00:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if you can't go out once in awhile with your friends. Than he can't go out with his. He is being selfish, put him in his place by putting your foot down with his social life. He will let you go out and watch the kids if you cut off his fun too. (Or at least threaten it.)
2006-12-01 23:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by hiall 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he goes out every week end...an don't come home til the next day?
an you put up with that? hell , get a babysitter an give him a dose of that!
2006-12-01 23:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb kiddo.
If he starts whining, cut him loose and go out and find a real man for a change.
2006-12-01 23:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by johngolfs2002 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and go. Hes mad because of a guilty conscience.
2006-12-01 23:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your first responsibility is to your children. No time to be selfish and go out and have fun. Have fun with your kids!
2006-12-02 08:19:04 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find another babysitter and go, he's just afraid you'll go out and do the things he does. What a jerk!!
2006-12-02 00:25:02 · answer #10 · answered by SittinPretty! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋