He keeps saying he loves me he wants to be with me i told him to go live with one of his family members. In what other way do i tell him without feeling like im a total *****? I have told him we donot work well together and we need to move on? Im tired of dealing with him but i dont think i want to get the cops involved.
2006-12-01 15:51:56 · 9 answers · asked by saltynsassy3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he lives there, the cops won't do anything for you (most states require a formal eviction process, which will take months).
Change the locks and put his stuff in a safe place off out of yours (like w/ his folks or a friend of his...as you could be liable for anything that gets stolen). By not leaving he has no respect for you, so respect yourself by ending it as painlessly as possible for you!
2006-12-01 16:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by contemplating 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can tell him a bunch of excuses what you are "planning" to do with your life.
* You can tell him you want to see other people.
* You can say you have plans to move away
* you can say its not working and you need some time to yourself.
If that doesn't work, have to get firm and tell him to "GET OUT !!... ( bag up his clothes and change the locks) " and let him know your being as nice as you can.... The next step, is Mr. LEO/ restraining order...( if his name isn't on any lease)
2006-12-01 15:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the cops are the best answer but you don't wann go there and i respect that.
get your family involed or a guy friend to set him strait
i also like waiting for him too leave then pack up all his s*it and put it out side, when he gets home tell him that its time for him to move on and he is ready to go then lock the door
2006-12-01 15:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by konig_charger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have tried to be nice about it, and by your description, he seems a little sketchy. Since he won't take the hint, DO get the cops involved if you have to.
2006-12-01 15:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by Josh H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it is not mutual and to back off, and threaten to get a restraining order! also you can always bring someone else home and sleep with that one in the living room!
2006-12-01 15:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is disrespecting your word & using you!!!! If he doesnt listen,,he doesnt care. Call the cops!! Dont let him play you like that!!
2006-12-01 15:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to aside, look him sraight in the eyes, and kick him square in the nuts.
2006-12-01 15:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves you, he will respect your wishes, right? your wish is to have some time alone.
2006-12-01 15:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
poison him
2006-12-01 15:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by trader4578 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋