yes it true. i have hard time finding dates. most men say . damn yr pretty but too bad yr fat .. if yr slimmer i mite have date u .. i was like ?????.... is it body all the important???some also said if i was skinner i would be gorgeous.. .. its such and insult... why are people so nasty and bias towards fat people.
2006-12-01 15:44:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey nope i'm in asia. so basically most asian people are small petite and slim....*sigh*
2006-12-01 15:49:51 · update #1
i wasnt fat during my schooling days. its only started about 5 years ago when suddenly i have a major weight gain without even realising it .. until i cannot fir into my favourite dress that i kept for a special ocassion
2006-12-01 15:51:41 · update #2
because us guys know what we want
we want a perfect body / face / near perfect personality
seriously
theres 3 girls out there for every guy.
thats the guy - girl ratio..... 3 - 1
so we can choose which we want
and we are young and what not, so....
theres still time, not yet time to settle.
i take it you live in the states ?
no offence, but the states have some of the biggest people
as opposed to europe
aka..... people would rather go for europeans than americans.
sry, but its true...
2006-12-01 15:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by Nick723 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I can't understand why someone would be so ignorant to hurt you like that. I recently saw a show where they said that an overweight woman is the one who would get the most criticism and bias on the streets (over other minorities.) Maybe the next time a man is rude enough to say this to you, you can repay him in kind...say something like "Yeah, me too. If you were cute (or smart, sexy, whatever) I might have considered dating you too." Good luck hon and don't let them get you down.
2006-12-01 23:52:59 · answer #2 · answered by slknspphr3645 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok i'm not the smailest girl out there but.. you know one guy could think your to big but another guy could think your fine just the way you are. And if guys are going to be like that to you then they arent worth your time at all you can do alot better then them. alot of guys these days go by looks and thats it. but what alot a people dont think about is what is on the in side that counts not whats on the out side... When they say stuff like that to you then just look at them and say your loss i can do so much better then you i dont want a phone pull for a man anyways and walk away and if they come running to you just keep walking if they couldnt like you befor you said anything to them then they arent worth your time at all...be happy with what you are and what you look like dont let jurks put you down..
2006-12-01 23:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by Celia T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, the fashion industry has lead us to believe skinny is beautiful. The average American woman is a size 14 yet men don't want real women. They want them to look like children. Yes, I know I'll get thumbs down. Did you see the shows where the beautiful fashion models wore fat suits and went out into public? They couldn't believe the rude treatment they received.
2006-12-01 23:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by robinallsup 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww that is really sad that guyz can be so mean about that kind of stuff. Next time a guy says that to you just say something like I dont care what you think because I like my body and I wouldnt change it for a guy, I know that sounds dorky but its true, right?
2006-12-01 23:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by cheer_4_life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I don't know where you live, but where I live-it seems like unless you are bigger, you can't get a date. If I go to the movies or a concert...all the men are with bigger women. Not that it matters. But would you really want to be with someone that was only interested in your looks anyway?
2006-12-01 23:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's wrong...you should never worry yourself w/men like that. I am sure there is a guy out there that is better than all these other jerks that will love you for you!
2006-12-01 23:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by javaluv2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true! I love Phat women! As long as you are fun to be with, have a good sense of humor and think you are sexy, then you're the girl for me!
2006-12-01 23:49:37 · answer #8 · answered by akaantz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fat people need love too! Some guys date nothing else.....it's like their thing big girls.....and again big girls need love 2!
2006-12-01 23:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by justmedrt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That should be a motivation for you to lose a bit of weight. You will feel much better about yourself and you will be healthier. Try a little self discipline and some exercise. I'll bet you will be gorgeous.
2006-12-01 23:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋