me n my boyfriend have been dating for a month and like 1 week , and he told me that he finds other girls on myspace {cause we have a myspace} and messes with their heads and pretends to like them , and then in the end he says i was joking , exept he described what hed say to them in a meaner way. i told him that thats mean , but he said he gets a kick out of it. then.i was lookin at his comments and some girl asked if i was his gf { the girl that commented below her } and i told her yes . but then i called him and asked him who she was , and he said that he was messin with her head to make her think he liked her n ****. and was gonna d that thing mentioned earlier to her. but then she e mailed me and said that he denied us going out and said that we broke up and stuff like i broke up with him and i just wanted him back and stuff. well i told her that wasnt true .then she said that he gave her his phone number and asked to meet her.should i be worried that its not just a game?
2006-12-01 15:45:29 · 14 answers · asked by status_sweet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after i talked to him bout it the second time he said he agian was just playin.i told him that i was mad at him for it cause it was pissin me off, cause to me that dosent seem like just playin around to me ...whaat about you ...am i just over reacting if not what should i do/ say to him?
2006-12-01 15:48:12 · update #1
also , i will e mail him and he reads them then deletes them w/o replying . but he will reply to theirs . ... he has said he loves me b4 and acts like it whenn im around and when i talk to him but it seems like he only "loves" me when im around . i honestly really do love him .and itd b really hard to loose him. i try very hard not to distrust him and believe that its just a game. because thats what i want myself to believe . am i just pushing off the truth cause i cant believe it or am i mean for not trusting his word?
2006-12-01 15:58:49 · update #2
Are you kidding me....what is this ....your first boyfriend?
You sound like a true hearted trusting kind of girl who beleaves in what her boyfriend says just becuase he says; "I Love You"!
This is my girlfriend's computer...My name is Jeff...."Hi...how are you?" Now that we have been introduced....let me talk on this.... "He's full of ****!!!"...You have a very trusting heart and he sees that your a push over and all he has to do is say;I'm just playing baby....I Love You and you'll beleave him time and time again....dump his ***....he's a player...to him the world is a meatmarket...he sounds like the kind of person who works in a deli and his favoret word is .."NEXT"....If he really loved you he would'nt be pulling that kind of ****....find someone who really cares about you and has an equal heart...cuase I know you would'nt play like that...(or would you?) Good luck
2006-12-01 16:07:04 · answer #1 · answered by Shelley N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's also "playing with your head" too! I would let him know that he can have his own myspace and you will get yours. I wouldn't play the game with him, and tell him you don't appreciate his silly stuff. Maybe he's trying to make you jealous or perhaps showing you that your relationship is drawing to an end. He should make a committment to you and knock off the silly stuff, or just find someone who won't play these kinds of games with you.
2006-12-01 15:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by mch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! You should confront him again... Dont let him email other girls just to 'mess with there heads'! And I know the other girl may seem to be just saying this to get you upset or break up with him but you should really get to know all you can and confront him!
2006-12-01 15:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey when i was wif my boyfriend he did exactly the same thing but not on myspace he would go on those dating sites and go in chatrooms. i caught him out wen i checked his emails and that from other gals, and he used to giv his fone number out. i think he is lying to you. especially if he got that email. y would he do it otherwise. i think you should worry. ive been there, and i couldnt trust my bf.
2006-12-01 15:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a total waste of your time and energy. If it helps you to get rid of this guy, just ask her to forward you his emails to her. Trust me- this guy is not "The One"! Good luck to you.
2006-12-01 15:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he is an jerk because he is mean to those ppl- or your a naive because he is really interested in them and only telling you that.
Your relationship- only you can know.
2006-12-01 15:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to back from her, because it might be something serious, but it's most likely just men being the f.uckheads we are
2006-12-01 15:48:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah but you should ask her what his number is to see if shes lien.but either way you should leave his *** cause he shouldnt be playing those games if he dont want to get lied on.
2006-12-01 15:50:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a nasty and cruel person. It is only a matter of time before he treats you badly, too. Get rid of him now.
2006-12-01 15:48:34 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his ***. He's immature if he's playing around, or he's a liar if he's not. Either way, you deserve a better guy.
2006-12-01 15:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by MDP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋