Family & Relationships - 1 December 2006

I met this girl at a bar and we had a nice chat. She seemed interested in me and so I took her number. I called her after 2 weeks to ask her out. As soon as I told her who I was, she replied with an enthusiastic hello immedeatly followed by "I am on the other line with a cousin. Do you mind if I call u back?". I never heard back from her that night. Should I
(a) wait for her to call back
(b) consider that she is not interested in me
(c) call her up after 3-4 days
(d) any other action u wud like me to take.

2006-12-01 15:43:07 · 10 answers · asked by Pi 1 in Singles & Dating

a guy says he mite go out w/me and gave me his IM. do u think he will? he says im pretty hot u think he will? I asked ihm and he said he didn't know so I'm not sure.

2006-12-01 15:42:21 · 1 answers · asked by Sid-Knee! hehe. 4 in Singles & Dating

my ex-boyfriend keeps calling me everynight. and although ive made it clear to him i dont want anything serious with him anymore he said he'd try anyway.. eventhough i told him to stop calling me.. he still calls.. whenever he calls me he opens up topics about the future where I plan to work, my plans after graduation, etc.. and then he popped up a proposal if we could get married right after my graduation.. so i told him we're not even back to girlfriend-boyfriend mode.. and im not sure if i still want "us".. i told him not to wait.. and to plan a future without me.. but it's not working.. lately he signed a contract in an immigration agency for the US.. he just have to take some examinations and within one and a half year he could migrate to the US.. and he is still telling me.. he wants me to go with him.. i asked him, "why would i go with you?".. he answered me "fiances can be considered an immediate family member and can be included in his migration"...

2006-12-01 15:42:03 · 13 answers · asked by evismea 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-01 15:41:45 · 11 answers · asked by shawna h 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been together off and on for a year and we just moved into a house i bougt, thinking it would get better. but it just got worse now he dose not want to break up with me after i tell him time n time again its not going to work between us. i even been staying else where how do i get him out? oh and he has no money no job no whrer to go.

2006-12-01 15:40:41 · 18 answers · asked by saltynsassy3 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex-boyfriend keeps calling me everynight. and although ive made it clear to him i dont want anything serious with him anymore he said he'd try anyway.. eventhough i told him to stop calling me.. he still calls.. whenever he calls me he opens up topics about the future where I plan to work, my plans after graduation, etc.. and then he popped up a proposal if we could get married right after my graduation.. so i told him we're not even back to girlfriend-boyfriend mode.. and im not sure if i still want "us".. i told him not to wait.. and to plan a future without me.. but it's not working.. lately he signed a contract in an immigration agency for the US.. he just have to take some examinations and within one and a half year he could migrate to the US.. and he is still telling me.. he wants me to go with him.. i asked him, "why would i go with you?".. he answered me "fiances can be considered an immediate family member and can be included in his migration"...

2006-12-01 15:39:55 · 12 answers · asked by evismea 1 in Singles & Dating

What is your favorite thing about a guy, body parts and personality?

2006-12-01 15:39:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well tons of guys think i am hot
tons of guys want to date me
I am soo sick of it cause I dont want to make them feel bad and I have a boyfriend. But I feel like I am doing something wrong by having a boyfriend cause these boys keep asking me out I tell them i got a boyfriend but they are still there bothering me. I don't know how to get rid of them. No matter how rude they are still there bugging me and my friend are starting to feel bad cause ever guy they ask out says "no". All the guys they like all like me and I hate it cause I try to get the guy to go out with my friends but it doesnt work how do I get them to leave me alone!!??

2006-12-01 15:39:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dance all the time

2006-12-01 15:38:39 · 8 answers · asked by FashionChick 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay... there are two guys..
1) "Bob" teases me about another boy who i liked and he didn't like me. hes always saying the guys name and making fun of me.. ive tried everything, making fun of him, acting like i dont care and asking him to stop. what should i do?
2) "George" listened to "Bob" and now teases me about that other boy when "Bob" is around. when Bob isnt around he just talks a little hes very shy and doesn't talk to any other girls then this one who flirts with everyone
why do they do this/?

2006-12-01 15:38:20 · 8 answers · asked by JULIE 1 in Singles & Dating

i just dont know what to tell him what i want i dont want to tell him anything expensive cause i will feel bad any sugestions

2006-12-01 15:38:05 · 17 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 15:37:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents house is messy, always has been.My aunt and uncle are coming to visit them for a few days, and now all of a sudden they want it cleaned up. I am thinking of offering them one hour to help clean tomorow.The reason I dont offer more is because my aunt and uncle are coming at the last minute, and I have spent HOURS in the past cleaning the house for them, only have it look like a tornado went thru a few days later. It is messy enough that even if all 3 of us worked all day tomorow, it would still not be totally clean.They got a little mad today because I would not come over after work and help them clean. Telling my aunt and uncle not to come is not an option, we have not seen them for years.The funny part is, my aunt is total neat freak, and will probably spend the visit cleaning...like she usually does. I feel bad even though THEY choose to keep the house messy. And this site is great for getting unbiased answers!!

2006-12-01 15:36:44 · 12 answers · asked by eastcoastdebra 3 in Family

At 38, I've dated numerous women in thier thirties over the last few years. In nearly all of the relationships, brief and or long term, I was surprised to find out how many women enjoyed being spanked during sessions of intense sex. Some requesting it, some experiencing for the first time.
I asked several of them what the draw was to being spanked, and two answers stood out from the rest; they said they enjoyed, if not relished, the way I handled them in bed. Strongly, and or forceibly in a way that they weren't used to. This makes sense to me, but now has me wondering.
Do all women long to be spanked at times during sex??? Do most not get to experience it until a sexual maturity in thier thirties, or do they just not express, or explore with the thought of it in thier 20's???
Girls, care to shed some light for us on this???

2006-12-01 15:34:02 · 18 answers · asked by johngolfs2002 3 in Marriage & Divorce

our relationship has been magnificent until this. this is the only problem we have had. it upset me so bad the first time he asked that I had a nervous break down, (was crying so hard that I threw up, got a headache so bad I couldn't see, and then passed out for 2 hours). he promised me he would let it go and not ask me again. but now he wants me to have a threesome, still. I know its a guy fantasy, but why do we have to live it out? I don't want him with another girl, if this happens I am going to be crushed and not be able to trust him again. I have told him in these exact world how much I don't want this but he thinks that b/c I am curious about other girls it would be good. how else do I get him to see that this will ruin our relationship? I don't want to leave him, but if we have a threesome I can't stay (I told him that too and he still thinks he can change my mind) :-(

2006-12-01 15:33:21 · 13 answers · asked by soccer2music 2 in Singles & Dating

my best friend is so concieded and she is always saying how sexi and hott she is and how perfect she lookes in pictures and it gets so annoying hearing how all these guys "want her" (even though they dont) and she makes me feel bad cause she is righ and im not, even though she doesnt say it directly, and it gets annoying how she thinks one of my best friends is a b**** and how two of my guy friends a emmbarrassing and losers and how my other best friend follows us around(she doesnt) and i dont know what to do, she doesnt do anything i want to but when she wants to do something eighter ur in or ur out for good, so please help!!

2006-12-01 15:33:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-01 15:31:27 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told a co-worker about something intimate involving a guy I have been talking to. I told him I told the guy and he was embarrassed and mad. I didn't realize it would bug him (I repeat everything to my close friends). I apoligized, but he is hurt. I realize I was completely wrong in this situation and I know not to tell EVERYTHING. What should I do? Just tell the dude I am untrustworthy and he should not bother further? Or is there anything more to even do in the situation? I feel really bad.

2006-12-01 15:31:08 · 1 answers · asked by True 3 in Singles & Dating

when is it time for a kiss

2006-12-01 15:30:46 · 3 answers · asked by lvr grl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 15:30:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My older sister kicked me out of her room because my stupid dumb little sister, came in the room and said to use the computer, and i told my older sis i will get my revenge 3times.

but how will get my revenge on i need help please!

2006-12-01 15:30:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a problem. I''m smart. nice, and pretty. BUT I also don't do something that most people engage in. I'm a virgin who is saving sex for marriage. As we know, this can he hard when dating. Most guys want a girl who will put out. I dated this guy for a month, he was really sweet, caring and I told him from the beginning my views on sex and he said he was fine with it and could wait. After a month he said "he was busy". I really liked him. Why is sex so important? I'm not gonna ruin my virtue just so some guy can get pleasure but it's hard to mneet guys who will wait. Guys would you wait for a virgin girl? AND what would you think of a 21 yr old girl who is a virgin?

2006-12-01 15:30:24 · 7 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

how can you tell the difference ?

2006-12-01 15:30:15 · 2 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

What would be like a price average for a present.

EX. $20 dollars

2006-12-01 15:30:06 · 13 answers · asked by Batsy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I will turn 39 next weekend and I have realized that I have never really been in LOVE, in relationships of course, but in love... never... anyone else out there like me or am I a freak of nature?

2006-12-01 15:28:46 · 17 answers · asked by moejaymom 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 15:28:22 · 4 answers · asked by NIGHTSHADE 4 in Singles & Dating

Three weeks ago I met this guy who really liked me and asked if i would go out with him. I said yes. then two days later at our school's football game he kissed my best friend(i was on vacation at this time). When i came back to town, he was on with another girl. (5 weeks later,monday)he asked a girl who rids my bus to ask me out at canteen(a school dance our schoolhas every saturday night).What should I say to Him? I still want to go out with him though!

2006-12-01 15:28:19 · 19 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it true that most Hispanic people and also people of other cultures think that white women are more "promiscuous?" I have heard this before and was just curious. I am white and I plan on saving myself for marriage. I had a hispanic friend that only speaks Spanish ask me if I had a boyfriend and how many boyfriends I had had before. I am 19 and I said I currently don't have one and I have had 2 relationships before. He smiled and I go "mal?" or is that bad? and he said "ohh noo" and he said "tu eres mas bonita y no tienes novio..." Do you think he was implying anything and do they find it strange or odd that I have only been in two relationships and I am not "promiscuous"?

2006-12-01 15:27:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex wife doesnt want me to see my son of 4. I have a court order to see him which she ignores, We split when he was 2, I have only seen him on 41 occations since then. My ex and her family have asured me I will be out of his life completely soon. and that she is going to find someone else to bring him up. I left her as she was so promiscuous, she in turn is very bitter about the seperation.

75% of divorced men in the uk lose contact with the children by the 3rd year of seperation. I spent 14 months in court to be granted contact, only to discover that the court orders arn't inforced. I have tried everything to see my son and stay in his life, but I know I face the blunt reality that she will suceed in keeping contact cut, and i in turn will spend the next 12 years in court trying to maintain it. She is now moving 'as far away as possible' with him.

How will he be affected ? anyone been in the position of my son? Ive tried everything, absolutely everything.

2006-12-01 15:27:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really really like this girl that i was recently introduced to but she's straight and i was wondering if anyone had any tips on how to make her like me. And please don't tell me that it's impossible to make someone straight gay, because it is possible. I was turned gay by a girl. =D

2006-12-01 15:26:53 · 32 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating