Three weeks ago I met this guy who really liked me and asked if i would go out with him. I said yes. then two days later at our school's football game he kissed my best friend(i was on vacation at this time). When i came back to town, he was on with another girl. (5 weeks later,monday)he asked a girl who rids my bus to ask me out at canteen(a school dance our schoolhas every saturday night).What should I say to Him? I still want to go out with him though!
2006-12-01 15:28:19 · 19 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you really want to sell your self short for this player... then just go ahead. but this guy sounds like he just wants some action. try being friends with him first then decide if you like him enough to go back out with him... but before you say yes, remember all the girls he went out with in that short amount of time and make sure he wont make you one of those girls.
2006-12-01 15:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by westie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Angel: You are being very unwise for even, entertaining the thought of still going with this guy. He's a cheat and a loser. You will have your hands full of trouble with him and be very sorry later, for it. Forget him and move on. You will never trust your best friend whenever, the guy is around. Your friend should mean more to you than this loser !!!
2006-12-01 15:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get lost & you have to get on with your life. You don't need to spend time with a guy who thinks he can re-use you because he knows you'll always be there waiting for him. He knows you still want him and he knows you wouldn't leave him and that's why he kissed your friend. I have the same problem and I'm still dealing with it.
And as for your "friend", you don't need her as a friend. She doesn't even care enough for you to tell him "no" or to stick up for herself. She's missing one thing: self-respect. And that's what you need: self-respect. Respect yourself and don't let some guy you think likes you use you and use you again, like a disposable wash rag. Don't stoop down to their level. Keep the respect you have for yourself and walk away from the wrong path down. Good Luck and I hope you make the right choice. :)
2006-12-01 15:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by Bleed!ng Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've only known this guy for 3 weeks and he cheated on you within 2 days. Are you seriously considering being with him???
People like that aren't worth a breath of air.
2006-12-01 15:29:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no because he was really wrong for going out with your bf . So if you say yes then that would be the dumbest thing to do because you just lost trust in him by him kissing your bf, and you wouldn't know if he'll do it again!
2006-12-01 17:41:06 · answer #5 · answered by ms.beane4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cheats means he is no good he doesnt give a **** about u.Dont waste your time on him.I know u like him but trust me u will like a tons of guys so staying with him isnt going to help. He would do it to u over and over again even if he says he wont.
2006-12-01 15:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by katiebeth1821 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never go out with a guy who treats you like this. You should be his princess and it doesnt sound like hes treating you like one, especially if he cant ask you out himself! If you really do want to give him a chance than make him prove that he is going to treat you well.
2006-12-01 15:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by VS Angel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant trust a guy like that. He'll most likely cheat on you and put u through a bunch of drama
2006-12-01 15:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you ok? Why do you still want him? And I hope your best friend is no longer a friend!! What do you tell him...TELL HIM TO KISS YOUR @$$ SINCE HE LIKES TO KISS SO MUCH!!!!
2006-12-01 15:34:17 · answer #9 · answered by Alishia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are experiencing a crush...get over it...if he has been with so many girls...then he is probably looking to go all the way with someone...don't be that person...stay focused on school and be someone!
2006-12-01 15:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by moaehahi1979 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋