my best friend is so concieded and she is always saying how sexi and hott she is and how perfect she lookes in pictures and it gets so annoying hearing how all these guys "want her" (even though they dont) and she makes me feel bad cause she is righ and im not, even though she doesnt say it directly, and it gets annoying how she thinks one of my best friends is a b**** and how two of my guy friends a emmbarrassing and losers and how my other best friend follows us around(she doesnt) and i dont know what to do, she doesnt do anything i want to but when she wants to do something eighter ur in or ur out for good, so please help!!
2006-12-01 15:33:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think she tells you that because it makes her feel better. I f she is really your friend- you should be entitled to telling her to shut the f*ck up about that all the time, or "no one wants to talk about men all day, if you were so hot, why do you have so many, you must be a tramp!" Ask her, "what are you trying to prove to yourself by dating and flirting w/so many guys?"
The truth is that nice girls worth dating are modest, they don't have to brag about men likeing them, but that's not the issue here. If her bragging really bothers you, try not talking to her so much and begin by shortening your conversations. If she is truly your friend she Will take notice that you have become distant from her and she will begin to enquire why. If she doesn't ask why, then maybe she's not your REAL friend. If you like her company sometimes just ASSOCIATE w/her nothing else.
2006-12-01 15:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by covergirl84 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but no one is perfect. Your best friend has flaws everyones does. With all of this acting that she be doing she should become an actress. Ain't not a damn person on this earth so damn perfect that every guy in her town wants her. ain't happening here. You have a chioce here etheir to be in her shadow and let her work your nerves or you can bust out of that shadow and be your ownself. look out for yourself seems like your best friend can handle her own self.
2006-12-01 23:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by hotblacanesemama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it might be time for you to either find new friends who don't snicker and gossip about eachother or just deal with it. It also sounds like you have a lot of bestfriends. Maybe you need to reevaluate what a bestfriend is, and remember that the best way to make friends is to be one.
2006-12-01 23:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by NamGem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! I know exactly how you feel. I had this girl that was supposedly my best friend, but always... like... was rude. She had a crush on this popular guy, and then she became his "friend" and then she and him started insulting me and stuff straight out. That got me seriously pissed, and I just decided to drop everything I had with her. I just found a new best friend.
2006-12-01 23:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by Bubble T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she puts you down shes not a best friend so u either need to sit her down and talk to her or she got to go.you dont deserve to put up with a bitchy friend,you can get any friend better than that
2006-12-01 23:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt seem much of a best friend at all. tell her how you feel but she's so into herself she may not listen. i would consider drifting away from that relationship...
2006-12-01 23:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol wow you really needed to get that out of your system didnt you? that kinda sucks...
2006-12-01 23:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by abcdefg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just say ur my friend but you gotta stop all this ****, you aint all that so get over yourself!!! and shell problably get mad but shell get over it
2006-12-01 23:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by SexyMami 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lady she is not your friend =) just ditch that ******.......
2006-12-01 23:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋