I feel horrible all these guys got crushes on me and I hate to make them feel bad when I am not instersted ???

Question

well tons of guys think i am hot
tons of guys want to date me
I am soo sick of it cause I dont want to make them feel bad and I have a boyfriend. But I feel like I am doing something wrong by having a boyfriend cause these boys keep asking me out I tell them i got a boyfriend but they are still there bothering me. I don't know how to get rid of them. No matter how rude they are still there bugging me and my friend are starting to feel bad cause ever guy they ask out says "no". All the guys they like all like me and I hate it cause I try to get the guy to go out with my friends but it doesnt work how do I get them to leave me alone!!??

Answer 1

i know how you feel...im not going thorough that now but a few years ago a whole buch of guys liked me and yea i liked them as friends but not it that way. when they would ask me out i would say im sorry but id rather just be friends it hurt me almost as much as it hurt them beucase i felt mean and bad that i turned them down. but when you think about it, in the end its better not to get involved if you have no feelings for that person becuase it would be worse for them to find out that you never liked them and it would seem like you just used them.

its ok you have a boyfriend and youve already made that choice to be with that person so their just going to have to move on or wait (not that im saying your going to break up!)

:)

Answer 2

Don't let them think that the reason you don't want to go out is 'cause you have a boyfriend. Then, if you break up, they'll be crowding like a pack of wolves. Instead, tell them you value friendship more. Tell them you aren't really prepared to be in a serious relationship, but would love if they'd just be your friend.