I met this girl at a bar and we had a nice chat. She seemed interested in me and so I took her number. I called her after 2 weeks to ask her out. As soon as I told her who I was, she replied with an enthusiastic hello immedeatly followed by "I am on the other line with a cousin. Do you mind if I call u back?". I never heard back from her that night. Should I
(a) wait for her to call back
(b) consider that she is not interested in me
(c) call her up after 3-4 days
(d) any other action u wud like me to take.
2006-12-01 15:43:07 · 10 answers · asked by Pi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's probably very upset that you took so long to call in the first place. She was waiting for your call since you took her phone #. 2 weeks is a long, long time for a girl to be waiting to hear from a guy. She probably doesn't believe you're interested in her.
Wait for her to call back. (Never call her again).
2006-12-01 15:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a stranger you met at a bar. Letting it go wouldn't be that big of a loss.
If you're really interested in her, try to run into her again, do the "hey, good to see you again" thing, and don't wait 2 weeks to call her back this time.
2006-12-01 23:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by Venzen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for her to call back. Don't ever call her again unless she calls you first.
Trust me.
She also might be testing you to see if you're that type of "needy" guy that calls time after time...you threw out the line, now wait for the fish to bite and reel it in.
2006-12-01 23:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by MDP 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say don't call back. She may not be interested only because it took you sooo long to finally call her. We girls tend to think that when a guy asks for our number he should call us in the next few days if he really likes us. Since it took you 2 whole weeks to call her, she may feel offended and she may feel like she's your backup plan.
2006-12-01 23:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by Hottie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Call her up again. If she throws you another line like she's on another line, or similar to that, drop it. She might have had a lot to drink that night you chatted with her. Does she have your number?
2006-12-01 23:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by MaTriX 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
(b) she is not interested! Sorry. If she was she would have taken your call right then and called her cousin back.
2006-12-02 20:27:37 · answer #6 · answered by R R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude you waited two weeks? I wouldn't expect to hear from her anytime soon. Sorry bro.
2006-12-02 22:36:22 · answer #7 · answered by sexylatinguy23 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her one more time, she might have written your number down and lost it.
2006-12-01 23:51:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
just call her ..pretend its the first time u called,, who knows she actually waiting for u to make the call.
2006-12-01 23:45:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
who gives a **** what she thinks of you ! it's her own
fault if she don't like u
2006-12-01 23:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by -♥- onalou -♥- 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋