I have a problem. I''m smart. nice, and pretty. BUT I also don't do something that most people engage in. I'm a virgin who is saving sex for marriage. As we know, this can he hard when dating. Most guys want a girl who will put out. I dated this guy for a month, he was really sweet, caring and I told him from the beginning my views on sex and he said he was fine with it and could wait. After a month he said "he was busy". I really liked him. Why is sex so important? I'm not gonna ruin my virtue just so some guy can get pleasure but it's hard to mneet guys who will wait. Guys would you wait for a virgin girl? AND what would you think of a 21 yr old girl who is a virgin?
2006-12-01 15:30:24 · 7 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your virginity and your views about sex before marriage makes you one of the most desireable women alive. I didn't know there were still some of you left. Bravo! Don't compromise your morales and values for anyone. Your Mr. Right will come along in due time.
2006-12-01 15:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok i am a male virgin in my thirties who is also waiting till marriage . You need to meet the right kinds of guys who respect what sex should be between a man and woman. True love making is a full connection between a man and a woman. This is why we have a 65% divorce rate today. If that guy was really sweet and really caring he would understand the value of waiting till marriage for sex. Remember you will have kids one day and as a virgin i know that u probably want your kids to remain a virgin till marriage also. You must think about all of this before meetin a guy.You should be proud that you are saving yourself for marriage as that is the ultimate relationship between a man and a woman, Make sure your future husband also shares your values.
2006-12-02 15:42:38 · answer #2 · answered by virgin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't strange, and you aren't weird. If he isn't willing to wait for you, then he probably isn't the one that you want to be with for the rest of your life. My wife and I both waited until we were married before having sex (we dated for 3 years before getting married). You are obviously someone who has a strong core of values that you believe in, and you should stick with them. You are doing the right thing. When the right guy comes along, he'll be willing to wait as long as you need to. A lot of people regret having sex too soon. It's OK to wait for the right guy to come along, and let the relationship develop to the point that you are comfortable expressing your love in more physically intimate ways.
2006-12-01 23:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by bledderag 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once heard that if someone borrows twenty dollars from you and you don't here from them again then your probably better off. I think of what you asked in a similar way in that if a guy cant wait for what you truly believe then they are probably not worth being with in the first place. You truly are a great women for standing up for what you believe in which sets you apart from others. If you stick to your beliefs then you cannot let yourself down.
2006-12-01 23:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys masterbate every day so that's nothing new to them. DOn't ruin your virtues for someone who won't wait. If they really love you, they will understand. It's not worth it. Find a guy whos saving himself for marrige too and then it won't be a problem.
2006-12-01 23:35:10 · answer #5 · answered by Just Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its great, you're husband will be one lucky guy to say that his wife is a married virgin. REALLY LUCKY!!!
do you enjoy other sexual activites other than penetration tho?
2006-12-01 23:37:55 · answer #6 · answered by Conective-Tisue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
itsokay im 18 and a virgintoo..hold off as long as u can
2006-12-01 23:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by san francisco grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋