one girl is very pretty and ive known her longer but the other one isnt afraid to talk to me but shes a year younger they both like me wat sholud i do?
2006-12-01 15:14:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, if you are trying to decide on whom to start a relationship with (am supposing a serious relation), then this kind of basic physical information isn't going to help you to decide....you need to take time to think, with whom among the two are you real comfortable with.....love spending time with....and feel more at home and yourself....
i feel the person with whom you get the above kind feelings is the one you should opt for...cause being pretty or bold stands insignificant in a serious relation....compatibility should be your priority!
good luck!
2006-12-01 15:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't string them both along or they'll both end up hating you at the end of it.
You need to do some soul-searching and decide which (if either) of the two girls that you really want to be with. Which one do you find yourself thinking about constantly? Which one do you really feel a personal connection with? Once you've decided, make your intentions crystal-clear to both girls. Tell one that you just want to be friends, and the other that you are interested in dating her.
If you really can't decide between the two, it's probably because you're not really that into either one of them, or it could be that you don't know either girl well enough to make a decision. In that case, you should tell them both that you just want to put things on hold and be friends for the time being. If something's meant to happen with either of them, you'll probably discover which girl you have a true connection with in the course of your friendships with both of them. You can act on your feelings then. However, until you're relatively sure, you should really tell both girls that you're just looking for friendship so that you avoid confusion and hurt feelings.
2006-12-01 23:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ella Minnow Pea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a list of the pros and cons of both girls. All the things you like and dislike
Just take the time to do this and you'll get your answer.
Whoever has the most pros, you obviously like more. Whoever has the most cons you obviously like less.
Get to know both girls equally before you do this to give your heart a fair chance.
2006-12-01 23:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by Awex Is The Master of Insanity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really sure what you are looking for here. But I would say go for the one that you have known longer. (more friendship history) And if that fails you can try and go for the other girl. But first and foremost be true to yourself. Don't just "settle", just to be with someone.
Good Luck!!
2006-12-01 23:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not much information, but I say go with the one you don't know as well. Your relationship will probably last longer, cause you'll have so much to learn about her you won't get bored easily.
2006-12-01 23:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by radioflyer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, who do you like? Hurry up, make your mind before you lose them both. Let on everyone know and move on with life.
2006-12-01 23:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by Zakia S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
which will last longer, which do like more, It is a simple question, don't fight it, and don't base on looks
2006-12-01 23:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by ragewilted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the questionn is the one u like
2006-12-01 23:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go forth with the one you like best.
2006-12-01 23:17:31 · answer #9 · answered by Amy R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which one u love.u have to decide b4 they both find out.
2006-12-01 23:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by SWETA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋