My brothers best friend and I are starting to "hook up" with each other. Do you think my brother would be mad if he found out?
2006-12-01 14:28:37 · 22 answers · asked by Callie J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im 19, hes 23
2006-12-01 14:33:05 · update #1
Why should it matter? It's your life so do what you want.
2006-12-01 14:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is that you ask your brother first. You must protect the relationship your brother and you share. He comes first. He might approve or disapprove, it depends on whether or not the relationship his friend and him have is valuable. If the friend isn't a good candidate for you to date - believe me he'll tell you. If it bothers him he'll let you know. If you hide the relationship from your brother you become untrustworthy and he will resent you and yes he will be upset. Good Luck.
2006-12-01 14:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your brother... I would ask to see how he feels about it. He might think that his friend will focus more on you if you decide to "hook up" and he may not want this to happen. You never know unless you ask. Good luck!
2006-12-01 14:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by The Answer Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya,,, he knows just how dirty the giy is or isnt.
Sometimes the bestfriend, is worse, he will hit you, beat you, and then run red lights with you in the car, just cuase he knows your brother is not going to do anything about it. Who is the more stroger person? Your brother or your new friend
2006-12-01 14:38:56 · answer #4 · answered by Faith Walker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds fine to me. If he is your brother's best friend, then he must be OK. Talk to your brother about it.
2006-12-01 14:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he thinks his friend in just trin to "hook up" then yes but he knows that his boy cares . He may be ok with it. Just talk to him and tell him how you feel
2006-12-01 14:32:02 · answer #6 · answered by ladiedazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, make sure u can 'unhook yourself' after he finds out
you both has been fishy about your friendship
guess, your brother was the best bait
to get the best fish.
2006-12-01 14:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by Martin T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be better for him to find out early on, rather than if it gets serious and he finds out he was left in the dark for a long time
2006-12-01 14:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by Nisey B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm kinda, unless you are the same age or somethin as your brother and stuff
2006-12-01 14:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are great friends, he might be jealous to think you are taking his friend away from him. I think he would easily get over it, though.
2006-12-01 15:57:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your brother that well. Tell him to call me and I'll ask.
2006-12-01 14:31:23 · answer #11 · answered by mickeyg1958 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋