i know this is funny. But i do really want to know the most appropriate way to ask a girl out.
2006-12-01 14:31:18 · 10 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well for me I like it when a guy is honest and just is himself, as corny as that sounds it's true. I'm only 18 so I don't expect a guy to come out with this big speech or whatever saying all these things about me trying to persuade me to be with him. That's something that's on a mature level and would be a turn off for me unfortunately. I don't know how old you, anyway so that could or could not apply to you, but all I can say is be yourself, be confident, and cool about it. Don't ever give out your number to a girl, work on giving her a good enough reason to get hers instead. Humor is always good too. Good luck hunni I know the dating scene can be a pretty scary place... probably why i've been out of it a good minute
2006-12-01 15:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by awesome 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman responds best to a guy thats confident but not conceited. She doesn't want to feel like she's settling. Be sweet and romantic but not cheesey or use lines that have been well over used. Act like you aren't intimidated by her beauty but you admired it greatly. Women are full of insecurities, so show her you are a real person and she will be more comfortable opening up to you. Just talk to her. By talking first, you figure out what she likes to do, and invite her to come with you to some place clever (cause it includes her interests) at a certain date and time. Don't make such a request on the first meeting unless you are familiar with each other. Don't go on and on about physical attributes unless you are talking about eyes, smile or the like nature. Don't pick something superficial to admire. She wants to feel unique and noticed. I wouldn't use the "you wanna go out?" phrase. Its so middle school. Say something more mature, more romantic. Something about if she minds being your girl. I don't know. You'll figure it out. Good Luck.
2006-12-01 23:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No really, are you serious?
OK, maybe no one has asked me out before and i have asked no one out before (well, i mean, coz I'm 12 and do not want a relationship yet) But this is the procedure:
First, you have to know the girl well
Secondly, you need to be kind and all.
Thirdly, make your move!
2006-12-01 22:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by dragon.dancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... if u wanna get a nice girl then u should know that (not all) most nice girls arnt interested in guyz that smoke bud... i wud kno :(.... but i wud say get to be good friends and then ask if she wants to go out wit u
2006-12-01 22:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. I think you're very beautiful and you seem very nice (or fun or some other compliment non-related to her looks, which you've already acknowledged). Would you like to go out?
2006-12-01 22:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by Jim C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say, "Would you like to go the the show (whatever) tomorrow". All she can do is say no or yes. After awhile it becomes easier.
2006-12-01 22:35:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you ask to lunch or somewhere fun and give her complements about how she looks and then her how much you really like for awhile then she what she says
2006-12-01 22:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by sweetncuteladi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply with sincerity and kindness in your manner and voice; we like that and it's more important to us than you might think.
2006-12-01 22:36:59 · answer #8 · answered by Donelle Leslie Deuel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a gun point to her head and ask her out with you. it's 100% she won't said NO. (just kidding)
just ask and you will know.
2006-12-01 22:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont no but every time it has happend 2 me they just say hey will u go out with me
2006-12-01 22:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by Brandon lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋