there's a boy that i like and my best friend asked him if he likes me..(they are good friends). he said yes.. then he asked him if he would date me.. then he said maybe.. so i didnt know he asked that questions that day so i started flurting with him more than i usually do to try to give him hints that i like him.. and he was flurting with me.. but he gets really shy to me.. but when im not around hes not at all.. he smiles at me all the time and talks all the time.. ask how i am and how ive been and what i ben up to.. he asked me if i was single.. and my best friend told me that he said he was shy arounfd me..
- what does this mean?
-Does he like me?
-Do i need to make the first move?
-Is he going to make the first move?
-What do i do?
-Do i need to tall him strit up that i like him?
-Do i ask him if he likes me?
.... please help
- Do
2006-12-01 14:24:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He asked if you were single? You carry on like a 14 year-old. How old are you people?
If you're both kids, old enough to drive, heck yeah - go ahead and ask him out.
If he's an adult and your a kid, quit buggin' him, you're jailbait and he knows it.
If you're an adult and he's a kid, get a life sister.
If you're both too young to drive, just chill out. You're too young for relationships, too. But if you want to meet him at the mall or the skating rink or Burger King just to be representing the 'boyfriend/girlfriend' thing, ask him to meet you there. Just don't go rushing any behavior that one or the other or both of you aren't really hormonally or intellectually ready for. Be friends first and when the time comes y'all can get around to all that 'kissy-face' stuff. Don't rush life.
2006-12-01 14:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by rumplesnitz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break the ice by just talking to him a little. Let him warm up to you first, if he is shy around you. Ask him general stuff and remember you'll probably need to carry the conversation for awhile. Please patient because it may take a little while for him to warm up to you.
If you want to ask him out, do it with a group of friends the first time out. After you find out more about him you can plan things that you both enjoy doing.
Personally, I wouldn't mind if a girl that I liked told me that she liked me but telling someone you like him before you have yet to establish anything is a little nerve-wrecking. You may even get rejected if he's not ready.
Good luck
2006-12-01 14:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by eddy_guay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? You should tell him straight up, that you are going to settle for another fellow who is less nice and sweet that he is because he is torturing you for not accepting you. If he doesn't get out of his shyness after giving him the blunt certainty that you would accept that most guys don't even get, he does deserve to kicked down to learn that he should be more open. Is his emotional defense mechanism more important, or you? How important is love for him? He needs to get his priorities straight. If he is your friend, give him some tough love by showing your new guy that while he is not as good as you, you had to settle for him instead.
2006-12-01 14:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's shy, you need to be the outgoing one. Of course he likes you! Why else would he ask if you were single? You need to make the first move, since he is too shy. Tell him you like him.
2006-12-01 14:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by freakishrockstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey no probs my brother'sthat kind too...that guy loves u but there are some guyswho feel shy before girls...no need to worry...just tell him straight that u like him...then he'll be more free with u in talking....^_^.......
2006-12-01 14:39:20 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably mean that he likes you and that he is shy and all, but you need to step outside your comfort zone and ask him out. Then, AFTER you asked him out, you ask him if you like him.
2006-12-01 14:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by dragon.dancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does this mean? -he likes you
-Does he like me? -see above
-Do i need to make the first move? -if you want to get togeather yes
-Is he going to make the first move? -not in this lifetime
-What do i do? -see above
-Do i need to tell him strait up that i like him? -see above
-Do i ask him if he likes me? you already know so why put him on the spot like that
if you like him ask him out if not well you know
2006-12-01 14:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by konig_charger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU must be the agressor, make the plans, etc. He likes you and is ectremely awkwards aroundf you because of that not deserving you feeling.
2006-12-01 14:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like shy guys - no one can stop you
maybe ask him to express it in words
2006-12-01 14:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by Martin T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WAS SHY MOST OF MY LIFE AND IT IS SO HARD TO GET OVER IT
SO I SAY IF YOU DONT ASK HIM YOU WILL NEVER KNOW
RIGHT
2006-12-01 14:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋