I am in gr12...last year....and still havent met my love...
I mean ok, sometimes i am a bit unsociable but i am a REALLY nice guy.... all of my friends and girls say that....
There is this one girl...
she talks to me when we see each other...smile at me..when i dress up she tells me i look nice ...... theres one time i was walking home and there was a girl waving at me she was like "so u live here too?" so we walked and she told me some of her background
she sees me as a friend right? (...she usually talk to me 1st)
does she think of me like a younger bro or something?
THen theres the my crush...
i dont think she likes me that much..... she tells me about her personal life issues, etc
You can say im crazy over her
I want to protect her with all my might i want to carry/take away all of her burdens..
Nowadays... i cant seem to go on a day without thinking of her...
How can i make her like me back?
She IS the most beautful girl ...i wanna live with her till death.....
2006-12-01 14:17:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i asked her to a movie next weekend
along with some friends
so... can i use that oppertunity?
2006-12-01 14:23:39 · update #1
wow, your situation sounds exactly like the way i as when i was 17-18.
i know how it feels to have those strong feelings of love (and perhaps lust too) towards a girl you like.. my mistake was coming on too strong. i know you think you want to be with her forever, but don't tell her that. that will freak her out.
act causally and try to get her to spend more time with her. the movie date with friends is a good start. talk to her as often as you can and try to set up some one on one dates soon. don't make it out to be a huge event though. casually ask for lunch together, and just sorta develop the friendship closer..
hoepfully the chemistry will develop. then you can eventually approach the topic of dating/relationships when you feel the time is right..
this stuff isn't easy and it takes lots of time and work. but a great relationship requires good friendship first and needs to be build slowly with trust, honestly, respect, openness.. before it can be love.
good luck!
2006-12-01 14:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay that u havent found ur love yet. It just shows that u haven't found the right person yet. If you really want the girl to try to like you the just tell her!!! The worst that she could say is that she doesnt' like you. If she doesn't then go for the first girl, she sound so much better. My advice is just give it a try, take a chance. My boyfriend and i got together because i told him that i like him. If she does like you...give her a few weeks to take it in. It will work out some way. There are tons of fish in the sea if the others dont' work out. Really just tell them!!
2006-12-01 22:35:38 · answer #2 · answered by itillianchk10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel,
maybe before christmas buy her some roses with a sweet card saying how much you love her and give her some choclate or somthing!
I remember my first time i relized i was being crushed on!
I came to school one day and opened my locker to find two long stemed one red and one white roses. plus three heart shaped golden foil wrapped milk choclate candied sitting right in frong of the roses with a card sitting up behind that that had a beautiful poem written in it bout how he loved me so much and why and everything
it is a memory i will never forget!
2006-12-01 22:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Mystery 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant make someone like but all you can do is just continue to be nice to her and go from there and give her complements to saying that she looks really nice and all you can do is pray and see what happens next but if shes not getting that you like her and its been long time then you need to tell her how you feel about her and see what she says
2006-12-02 11:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by sweetncuteladi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wanna live with her till death? well, do you guys hangout a lot? do you know a lot about her? you cant make someone be your but you can get to know her more, find out what she likes and what she looks for in a guy, and maybe your friendship will go higher. You just see what happens.
2006-12-01 22:23:59 · answer #5 · answered by LuvaLuver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. Maybe not all at once, because that might be a little shocking at first, but become close to her and make it a gradual process.
2006-12-01 22:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by Liz♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her on a date and if she says yes then that will be ur oppertunity to get to know her better
2006-12-01 22:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by falawoods 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a letter to her saying what you just said.
2006-12-01 22:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by Warum liebst du mich? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUVE GRADUATED LIKE ME AND YOURE BEHAVIN LIKE A CHILD. SERIOUSLY, how can you thikn of marriage in such an age?. Im in grade 12 too and no matter how much i like my crush, IM NOT PLANNING ON MARRYING HER RIGHT AWAY.
2006-12-01 22:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to be yours... u cant "make" her like you back, but i dont think u gotta worry bout it, from wat u said she seems to like u aight... o and ur wrong, jessica IS the most beautiful girl in the world... but ima not argue, lol :) good luck bro
2006-12-01 22:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋