that he doesn't want a relationship but takes you out all the time. What's it mean when he says he "can't" love anyone but calls you all the time. Whats it mean when he says he'll never get married again but takes you on all kinds of trips and vacations. What's it mean when you ask if he loves you and he says no, but he holds you in his arms and he kisses you passionately and makes tender love with you? What's all the mixed signals?
P.S. The questions I ask aren't all about me - they come from different sources. : )
2006-12-01 14:29:13 · 21 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh and he asked the woman to move in with him and she did.
2006-12-01 14:36:08 · update #1
He feels it but is fighting it.
2006-12-01 14:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like this person could have been very religious and maybe took the prior marriage as his commitment to God. That's commendable, but then he separated or divorced? Maybe he can't remarry for those reasons, but still needs companionship. He may be bringing more baggage to the party then he is telling. Careful with these choices since they may be or may not be. Best suggestion ask him, talk to him and find out. If the gal is a friend, you talk it over with him as a concerned friend. Sure would be a waste to be together with someone that would never again commit, and only use the situation as a booty call. Best wishes and good luck!!
2006-12-02 00:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by Gary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...if i am a man, i can imagine myself doing that. it seems some of them have committement issue and they do and say whatever they want whenever they feel like becuase they're in the mood which doesn't guarantee any future. there is no mixed signals...it's pretty clear. when they want accompany, they seek out women and say things how they feel. it's true at that moment but the feelings don't last.
2006-12-01 22:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He makes love with a woman but says he can't love anyone, etc.???? This is a no-brainer! He's a womanizer who is using women for sex, but won't commit to anything. There's nothing new in this ploy.... take it from this old lady. LOL
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-01 22:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the man is using the girl for his own reasons. He needs some one but doesn't want to make a commitment. He wants the girl to be there only when he wants her for his pleasures.
2006-12-01 22:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by prarierosebud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the guy dont want to settle down or be in a steady relationship, that way his options are always open, but dont have to worry about being lonely at the same time
2006-12-01 22:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it means that theres some hes holding back from telling anyone .
2006-12-02 10:26:02 · answer #7 · answered by cindybells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't want to committ to u, but wants everything else. when he tells u how it is u best believe him and accept it for what it is and either move on or live with it, as he may never change.
2006-12-02 18:51:07 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly...it sounds like a man who only wants the girl when he wants to be passionate or down her pants.
2006-12-01 22:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he likes you but doesnt want to be tied down. Wants his cake and eat it too. If it's not enough for you, get out!
2006-12-01 22:34:11 · answer #10 · answered by Jay Jay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's someone who can't commit but can't stand to be alone. Usually they are very insecure.
2006-12-01 22:37:22 · answer #11 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋