Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

I believe that I may have feelings for my ex boyfriend. We broke up three years ago. I have dated and been in another relationship since then. We still talk and spend time together at times.

Should I tell him how I feel? If so, how should I go about it?

2006-11-25 19:09:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we fight all the time about dumb stuff, and we have 3 kids? we fight about cleaning, jealousy, but nothing big!! what the hell is going on?? But it feels like he don't like me anymore.

2006-11-25 19:07:50 · 7 answers · asked by blue_lollypop4422@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been remarried for 2&1/2 years and my husband is very kind and a good provider. He has a lot of insecurity issues and was heavily abused as a child. This causes him to be very passive and weak-acting. He suffocates me, won't give me any space for fear of losing me. I have 3 kids from my previous marriage and he has none, and he is very jealous of the closeness between my kids and I. He does everything he can to make me mad at them.

I am so upset and sad about this, I married him for the wrong reasons, it was all rebound stuff after my first marriage ended. I don't love him like a wife should love her husband, but I feel so sad for him and don't want to hurt him. But I don't think I can live being his wife. His insecurities push me away more and more! He deserves better but I can never be happy like this!

I'm also still madly in love with my ex-husband and would do almost anything to be with him.

My heart aches over this all of the time! Any sincere advice?

2006-11-25 19:07:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-25 19:07:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 19:07:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Any ideas to cheer her up? She has everything money can buy (that I can think of).

2006-11-25 19:06:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Earlier today, my boyfriend, his parents and I were having a conversation and somehow the fact that one of my co-workers used to be a stripper came up. I mentioned that my co-worker had told me she made extremely good money stripping - over a thousand dollars a week - stripping, and how outrageous and possibly unbelievable that seemed.

My boyfriend then said something along the lines of, "Oh no, some strippers really can make that much money. I used to know a stripper, and let's just say that she looked REALLY good...and she made a ton of money doing it."

The comment really upset me. I hid it at the time because we were around his parents, like I said earlier, and meant to bring it up to him later, but then it slipped my mind. I'm wondering if I'm just being overreactive with how much the comment upset me? Do I have a right to be upset with how my boyfriend was talking about this stripper? I want to know before I bring it up to him, because I'm afraid of seeming easily jealous.

2006-11-25 19:06:06 · 15 answers · asked by elizabeth 1 in Singles & Dating

im not into premarital sex and my bf is all for it.
i counldnt sleep and my bf is a really deep sleeper so when i cant sleep i just lay on top of him & its helps me go to sleep.but it didnt work so i started playing with his hair he lets his hair grow to his waist before he cuts it. it makes him look really sexy.so i was siting on his chest leaning over him playing with his hair when i fell his hand on my *ss my boobs are all in his face i sit up & hes got this wierd grin on his face.he pulls me down and keeps on trying to get me to have sex with him.i pussed him away but now every chance he gets he tries to have sex with me.hes never seen me in the clothes i sleep in because hes always sleep when i come and im up early in the moring i sleep with a really short tee shirt and some short shorts. and i still cant get him to stop. i dont want to end it with hihm but i just want him to stop.
how do i get him to stop ?

2006-11-25 19:05:49 · 17 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

At least till after Christmas? It would be a shame if he ruined the holidays for everybody. Who else thinks this is unfair?

2006-11-25 19:05:18 · 19 answers · asked by blondepiaga 1 in Family

My financee is working out of the Country, he gets a 21 day R & R. every 4 months. Twice in 16 months he chose to take it somewhere other than with me. We are getting married in 4 months and I try to understand, yes I am working and it would be more fun vacationing somewhere more exotic. I am feel like I have a cyber boyfriend. I love him, but it is hard to ignore others asking me out and the attention. He seems to be enjoying himself. He is touring Europe on this R & R, last one he vacationed in Australia. He calls daily telling me how much he loves me and misses me, and I am the best thing in his life. I try to understand, but every night I sit at home alone and ignore others asking me out. I love him and this has been going on 2 years and I am lonely.

2006-11-25 19:02:49 · 15 answers · asked by 2cool4fools 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is it ok for a 15 a sophomore and an 18 a senior to go out does that look wierd in the eyes of parents and teachers. R they going to think that we are having sex

2006-11-25 19:00:52 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm really having a hard time right now. I'm thinking of doing very bad things to myself and I can't control the feelings. I feel so alone. Earlier this week, I told my "wife" that I wanted to leave to Colorado to be with my ex. Our marriage was falling apart anyways and we both agreed way before this that we aren't happy. I know that my ex and I still love each other and want to try it again. My wife threatens to strangle me, to take the modem to school with her, and to block her number on the phone from being able to call me. She wants me to leave and I want to leave but yet she stops me from making plans to do it because it says this hurts her so much. The cops have been called twice this week and have made her leave. Tonight, she went to her sister's house to drink and smoke weed as a minor (20 years old). She just left me and my daughter here like it was nothing. She looks at me and tells me that "you're going to leave anyways so what's the difference." Please help me.

2006-11-25 19:00:21 · 16 answers · asked by sornelas26 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-25 18:59:06 · 6 answers · asked by takira h 1 in Singles & Dating

How long before I can let one loose between the sheets at her place?

2006-11-25 18:58:17 · 16 answers · asked by Low 2 in Singles & Dating

Did you get all your experience from that one woman or, like a fine wine, you just got better with time?

2006-11-25 18:58:08 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

A teenage boy giving a girl 1000 paper cranes to show his love for her, despite the fact that she previously said she just wanted to be friends. They are 14. He just wants to prove it to her that he is unlike any other boy.

2006-11-25 18:58:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for the past month or so, i've been feeling extremely depressed and lonely...i think about my future and i really see nothing. even when i have people around me, the company just isn't enough. i always find myself thinking back to a time where i was happier and comparing it to my situation now, which always makes things worse. i feel like nobody in this world loves me, or even cares.

i'm wondering if this is just a phase, or if i should seek medical help? can anyone else relate to this?

i've had periods like this before, but it's never been this bad...

2006-11-25 18:56:24 · 16 answers · asked by killa k 1 in Friends

could a female ever be a great seductress like Casanova or don juan? I know there was also cleopatra...but if a female slept around and went around seducing men, wouldn't she just be a sl ut? Where is the line drawn?

2006-11-25 18:55:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would the child be considered hispanic because of his mother or jewish because of his dad?

2006-11-25 18:54:02 · 8 answers · asked by niss9 1 in Family

I just learned that my 12 year old daugther is not my biological daughther. She's the daughther of my wife's old flame. I have been married to myy wife for 11 years. We got married while I was in undergrad and when she moved in with me she was already carrying what I thought was my kid and didn't tell me until 3 months later. Now I learn that I am not the biological father. When the news was revealed, she immediately connected with this man whom she claim to not spoken with in over 14 years. Her initial response was who did I tell.Just recently she reconnected with him and had an affair with him. I have an kid(4 years old) outside of our marriage which I thought we had worked through those issues and I let everything out in the open with my affair. But for her to have deceived me for so many years I can't help but think she trapped me. I was willing to stay after finding out the paternity but for her to continue to have relations and affairs with this man after the fact is unsettling.

2006-11-25 18:53:03 · 10 answers · asked by duped36 1 in Marriage & Divorce

here's this guy who I dated for a few weeks, we had an amazing time! The connection and chemistry we had was incredible! But he is a restaurant manager and his hours are CRAZY. 14+hrs a day, at least 5 1/2 days a week.When he gets off at around 3-4am he's too tired to do anything with me.Or on his day off, he might rather hang with his guys, or so he claims.I am a clingy, attached likes to hang out with my man sort of girl. I do have my own friends, but in the beginning I want to see him, you know? At first he told me he "likes me a lot and he really just wants me to chill." But things just went down from there. We stopped talking for a week or more and everytime he will text me random things like "Happy Halloween" or "Happy Thanksgiving" or "How's it going?" I want to move on, but with him giving me "mixed signals" I don't know what to do!? Help! I do like him but I believe it's not going anywhere so I don't know what to do. What can I do? Just "date" and have fun? Go with the flow?

2006-11-25 18:52:31 · 8 answers · asked by Gina C 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this might sound stupid but here goes:

Before, whenever my friend ask me to go somewhere with her, if I say I can't, she would literally stay home and not go. For example, one time she asked me if I wanted to go to a Jessica Simpson concert with her and I couldn't, so she stayed home the whole day. She had said, ''If you don't go, I won't go.''

But now, she changed. When she ask me to go somewhere and I say no, she replies, ''I don't care, I'll ask etc, etc.'' My cousin tells me that means my friend doesn't really care about me anymore because she says, ''I don't care if you go or not...'' But I think it's because she made more friends so if I don't go, she has someone else to go with. What do you guys think? Does it mean my friend doesnt really like me anymore or it's nothing?

2006-11-25 18:50:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm starting to gt really scared. I was walking home alone and my ex-boyfriend had followed me and he keep on trying to kiss me and touch me. I told him stop but he wouldn't listen. he had grabbed my arm really and had a tight grip that left me brusies. He had pinned me to a wall in a alley and was slobbering all over me and he kept on trying to kiss me but i didn't let him. He grabbed my face and told me that he was going to be with me no matter what and he would do anything to have me. I cant be with him he is jeaolou and forceful

2006-11-25 18:48:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At this formal dance, cost me $180. I took this girl I really like, but as more of a friend. I think she might be interested in me. One of my best friends took his girlfriend, smoking hot babe. I kind of forgot about the girl I took and freaked with my friends girlfriend. My friends GF was all over me when he went to the bathroom, she was grabbing my dick thru the pants (big deal when ur 14) and letting me rub her whole body. While dancing with the GF the girl I took was watching and she shot me a disaproving look. She had no right too considering that she wasn't wanting to dance. Later that night i was slow dancing with another girl and at the end of the dance I had a big kiss with her. The girl I took was watching, I am wondering if I made her jealous or went too far. Now at school she seems to be more interested but I am terrible with reading girls (believe it or not, I only hook up with loose girls).

2006-11-25 18:47:57 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

hey i just want some ideas of what to get her for christmas. She is 17, a junior in high school, i gave her a neclace and ear rings for her birthday like 2 weks ago. if you have anything dirty just leave plz.

2006-11-25 18:47:15 · 9 answers · asked by monkey_frk 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 17 years old and my boyfriend is 22. we have been together since 2004. we have a relationship and i didnt told my mother about it..i was going to the house of my boyfriend to see him. my mother had known about it when it was our 17th month.my mom spanked me.then my boyfiend talked to my mom and they agreed that my boyfriend will go to our house to visit me instead of me going to their house. but i continued going in their house secretly. now i and my boyfriend are having a long distance relationship because im studying. anyway(my boyfriend didnt graduate in college because of the foolishness he had done before) now, my mom is advicing me not to give my full attention to my boyfriend and not to take him seriously. i really love my boyfriend. now, he's trying to find some work instead of continuing college. what will i do???

2006-11-25 18:47:03 · 5 answers · asked by chantal 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My stepson got my husband tickets to a ball game for his birthday
& invited all the other stepchildren & their wives but not me. He said he just wanted it to be him & his dad but when the others heard they invited themselves. I don't believe that...it was just a way to exclude me! I have been married to my husband for 15 years & they still don't accept me no matter what I do! What really hurt was that my husband didn't stand up for me...I'm not into sports & I didn't expect them to pay for my ticket (I would have), I just wanted to be invited(included!) It makes me feel that my husband doesn't believe Im part of this family either! But no matter how much I tell him it hurts that he didn't stand up for me, he just can't seem to understand what the big deal is! I sometimes wonder if he loves me!

2006-11-25 18:46:47 · 15 answers · asked by Joanie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-25 18:46:28 · 10 answers · asked by 2cool4fools 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My all friends r going away from me. Whenever in their life any problem comes i always try to help them as much as i can but now when my bf broke my trust nd i am alone no friend come to me to ask anything nd to help me. They all r going away from me. All say that no one is our in hard time but i never agreed it coz i thought that if i help others in their hard time then how can i be alone in my hard time but today i see myself that really there is no one in hard time. What should i do?

2006-11-25 18:44:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It seems as though all the relationships I have been in, I am either getting hurt or hurting the other person. and even in a long term relationship, I am still vulnerable, and end up expecting more than I get. Do I always have to be on the defensive? Even if I am in a settled relationship? Must I always guard my heart?

2006-11-25 18:44:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating