I believe that I may have feelings for my ex boyfriend. We broke up three years ago. I have dated and been in another relationship since then. We still talk and spend time together at times.
Should I tell him how I feel? If so, how should I go about it?
2006-11-25 19:09:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on what you expect or want to happen. And why you broke up.
2006-11-25 19:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok my ex and I broke up for the 3rd time almost a year ago. Since then we have started taking again and thought about getting back together. Although I still love him, I remind myself of the reasons we broke up before, and realized that he has not changed, and therefore our problems would probably still be the same. I have a feeling that if you think about it, you will come to the same conclusion. However if you guys broke up over some inconsequential crap, then maybe it will work. Just think about it. Whatever you decide, just be careful!!! Good Luck!
2006-11-25 19:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by jasam4ever08 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is still single then I don't see any reason why you shouldn't. You should start slow and drop some hints first and see how he responds to it. If that goes well then you should go to a romantic place like the beach during sunset or something and tell him there. It is better that you tell him in person so that it is more romantic and memorable for the both of you.
2006-11-25 19:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by Jeannette E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no harm in telling him, so long as you really want a relationship, and you're not just lonely. I would just be upfront and say that you've been thinking a lot about him and wanted to know if he feels the same. If he doesn't, you're really in no worse position than you are now.
2006-11-25 19:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, no longer until eventually that love is for a friendship-variety courting purely. it particularly is very nearly impossible to have a love courting with no little lust in touch because of the fact exhibiting affection is composed of each and every thing on the record.
2016-10-04 09:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you belive you still do.. especially after 3 years then yes you should let him know how you feel. Dont keep it bottled up and regreat never telling him
2006-11-25 19:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Plainly and in a straight way. Be aware though that you could be disappointed, even destroy the balance of your relationship.
2006-11-25 19:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell him. Tell him how you feel cause these feeling will just continue to grow until you do so.
2006-11-25 19:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by tika ukie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋