I know this might sound stupid but here goes:
Before, whenever my friend ask me to go somewhere with her, if I say I can't, she would literally stay home and not go. For example, one time she asked me if I wanted to go to a Jessica Simpson concert with her and I couldn't, so she stayed home the whole day. She had said, ''If you don't go, I won't go.''
But now, she changed. When she ask me to go somewhere and I say no, she replies, ''I don't care, I'll ask etc, etc.'' My cousin tells me that means my friend doesn't really care about me anymore because she says, ''I don't care if you go or not...'' But I think it's because she made more friends so if I don't go, she has someone else to go with. What do you guys think? Does it mean my friend doesnt really like me anymore or it's nothing?
2006-11-25 18:50:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds like what people do in life. If their #1 friend can't go, they don't stay home doing nothing, they ask someone else. It sounds more abnormal of her to sit home because of you. You might think about making different friends who do more things you are allowed to do. You'd have more fun.
2006-11-25 18:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think that it is nothing. if she asked you first before anyone else i still think shes like a good friend to you and still likes it.. she might just not want to show that she gets emotional and maybe even offensive when you say you can't go and just blows it off with an "idc" My advice is to not worry about and just go on like that never even happened and see how she is
2006-11-26 12:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is just getting tired of sitting at home all the time. Best Friends don't have to do everything together to be best friends. It's okay to do stuff separately. This way you bring a whole new perspective to your friendship
2006-11-26 02:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by Amy R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend is hurt and feels you pulling away, but doesnt understand why and now is trying to branch out, but still give you a chance to prove in her mind, that she hasnt lost you as a close friend.
2006-11-26 02:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by Not In Kansas? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's nothing. She probably already gets use to the fact that you've always said 'no' to her and that she doesnt really care anymore.
2006-11-26 02:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋