I'm starting to gt really scared. I was walking home alone and my ex-boyfriend had followed me and he keep on trying to kiss me and touch me. I told him stop but he wouldn't listen. he had grabbed my arm really and had a tight grip that left me brusies. He had pinned me to a wall in a alley and was slobbering all over me and he kept on trying to kiss me but i didn't let him. He grabbed my face and told me that he was going to be with me no matter what and he would do anything to have me. I cant be with him he is jeaolou and forceful
2006-11-25 18:48:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to tell the police about this and you also need to tell your parents if you are still living with them. If not then you need to tell you friends so that they can help you and keep you company. Get a restraining order and it may also be smart to limit your activities for awhile and make sure when you do need to go somewhere that you are never alone. Always keep a friend by your side and make sure you're always in the public eye. Limit your night activities. It is better to be safe than sorry.
2006-11-25 19:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jeannette E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order and someone to walk with you or drive you. Can you move away? I would go to the police. The next step is him either raping you or beating you up. Why are you in this relationship? The first time he put his hands on you the wrong way should have been a wrap. Sister, wake up, NOW!
2006-11-26 02:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by Not In Kansas? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents, tell a policeman, tell your principal....then take a more secure way home, get a ride with people you trust, never be alone, and see if you can (are allowed to in your state) get a can of mace you can keep with you, and think ahead how and when you could use it, and if you get into trouble then use it. Also learn from your principal, from a trusted teacher or have your parents find for you either online or in person some kind of training where you know where to punch, kick and stomp on a person's foot to protect yourself when you say and mean "no".
Why won't he go away? because he sees you as being alone or being independent, or being an easy mark.
2006-11-26 02:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by sophieb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to be telling your parents and friends about this. SO they will keep a look out for you. Also if this happens again or u want to make sure it doesn't contact the police and try to get a restraining order against him. Notify some of his family that you can trust. They may be able to talk to him or keep an eye also.
2006-11-26 02:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by Simmy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell the police now!! There's a reason you broke up with him and i'm sure it was his aggressive jealous behavior. Your life is too precious to take lightly. You have the right to walk home and go out and not feel scared of someone. Talk to someone at police station about this. I do not want to be reading about you in the paper. You will be in my prayers
2006-11-26 02:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by summertime 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although you don't want to be with him he obviously still wants to be with you, and in his eyes you probably belong to him. Most of this usually has to deal with the fact that your ex doesn't want you to be with anyone else. I would try telling him one more time that you don't want to be with him and let him know that you are not going to let this behavior continue. It sounds like he is on the verge of being abusive and if so you may have to get a restraining order. I hope everything works out.
2006-11-26 02:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by asisk497 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all men get that feeling from time to time... not all react this way.
he doesn't understand it is over. he feels that he can win you over once more... obviously - knowing that you date other men will only make things worst - be careful
try making it very clear and simple - tell him to listen carefully - and say all the things that simply don't work between you guys - i don't love you anymore, i don't feel the same way, i am afraid of you and i can't and won't leave this way, i don't deserve this treatment... use a very calm tone of voice - that usually tempers people - try to be as calm as possible. have friends around you when he could be next to you. i don't suppose he wants to humiliate himself in front of your friends.
hope everything works out
2006-11-26 03:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by G01an 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a stalker to me. I say put a restraining order on him, ask a friend or parent to go with you where ever you are, or cary pepper spray with you. Make sure life time package.
2006-11-26 03:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by Licious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell someone about him. because someone like that wont go away. in his mind he is thinking if he can't have you no one will. a person like that can hurt you really bad or even take your life because you don't want him anymore. you need to go to the cops or tell your parents for they can know what he is doing. you don't need to walk alone always have someone with you at all time. your not safe with a crazy guy like that. good luck
2006-11-26 02:55:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um how much more of a hint do you need to call the police? Restraining order!
2006-11-26 02:50:30 · answer #10 · answered by pwnz7321 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋