Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

my husband, it seems, has always had a tendency to want to be alone, meaning, not spend as much time with his women as one would normally expect when you are in a relationship. this nature of his seems to have caused many of his past relationships to fail. after 8 years of marriage, (he claims this is a record for him - he has never been with anyone that long) he has become extremely moody, withdrawn and works late into the night. this has been going on for 4 months now. when i asked him to tell me what was going on, he said he needed me to leave him alone for some time. i can understand his need to deal with his issues on his own, but meanwhile it's really hurting me the way he pushes me away, and also driving me crazy (i think the stress is causing me to get a rash - the last time i had one was when i was a teen and really stressed out about school!) anyway, i need advice from people who have experienced something similar on how I can pull through this! need words of wisdom!!

2006-11-25 19:30:30 · 11 answers · asked by harleyq8 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 14 and it is 330 in the moring

2006-11-25 19:29:14 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our family is kind of disfunctional, my mom doesnt live with us but she pays for a car that is left here at our house insurance and all,. Its a nice SUV and its the only "good" car we have. My dads truck broke down and now hes using our only good car that we have left wich he doesnt even pay for. Im so angry that he doesnt want to pay for the repair of his truck (its 1,000$), that he has to use the family car that he doesnt pay for AT ALL, and most likely will turn out like his broken down truck. Does anyone else think this is fair? We just got it in the summer and hes been using it for almost a month now, he delivers newspapers and the couches will get dirty if he keeps using it. We have a toyota corrolla that isnt great but good for his job and its HIS. Im angry that hes gunna destroy the only family car just because he likes it and doesnt have money to pay for the repair when he has AN EXTRA car that he can dirty up instead. What should be done?

2006-11-25 19:26:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well see i have told yall about me and my ex and how we are supposed to be getting back together well i think he getting back with me cuse he doesnt want to hurt me not cuse he wants to what should i do

2006-11-25 19:26:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i come from a culture that if yr not married by 25 yr considered an old maid.. most of the people around me are already married. i have no intention of settling down soon .. even my younger brother is calling me an old maid .. it hurts sometimes but they just dont understand my rational. its not about signing the cert etc .. its more deeper than dat. sometimes i feel like thay cant wait to sell me off..
and some of my girlfriends who are married are indirectly hinting about the wonders of marriage life etc.. i mean i dont need to hear that ..

what can i do .. why are these people all have this shallow way of thinking??

2006-11-25 19:25:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you use tongue or prefer it. Why or Why not. I personally prefer just want to get some female feedback.

2006-11-25 19:25:47 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I've tried snapping my fingers, I've tried yelling, I've tried pointing at the fridge, none of them work.

I'm talking about my GF, not a dog.

2006-11-25 19:24:42 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am having my very first wedding in panama city beach at the board walk resort and i notice alot of people saying that ur guest have to pay for a slice of cake ,, why is that? what the point of it? I dont'n want my guest to pay for no damn slice of cake

2006-11-25 19:23:32 · 6 answers · asked by The Woman of God , I shall be! 3 in Weddings

I was troubled to hear that she had sex with one of her close workers at the place she is currently working at in the past. It sickens me to think they are still friends and I feel I may be losing her due to her past sexual activity. What do you think is my problem in realizing this and what should I do to avoid having to leave her?

2006-11-25 19:23:05 · 14 answers · asked by seaking 2 in Singles & Dating

hay, is it true women get wet after getting turned on or does that only happen in movies?

2006-11-25 19:21:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i hired a girl about a year ago who was 3 months preg,at 17.she quickly won the hearts of most all my 10 year plus customers.a few months ago a terrible car accident left her disfigured.she lost a piece of her skull and her face looks like it's cut in half.she also lost an eye and part of her lip.she was dumped by her boyfriend and supports her grandmother and an alcoholic father.i personally paid for her first re-constructive op.and plan on paying for the rest as well and i feel she owes me nothing.she's a wonderful kid and i love her as if she was my own but,now i have customers saying they refuse to allow her to wait on them any longer because she "grosses"them out.So if you were me,wouldn't you tell these people to take their business elsewhere?afterall,she's the same person she always was and,she really needs this job.why are people so cruel?

2006-11-25 19:20:49 · 13 answers · asked by jgmafb 5 in Family

2006-11-25 19:19:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This holiday weekend me and my wife argued it out again. I couldn't take it no more and lightly slapped her in the face. The police were called nobody went to jail luckily that put the fear in me. IF I get another assault it will provoke my probation. I am thinkin of calling the police on her now. IF she puts her hands on me for revenge is it ok to call the police? Should I divorce her for this?

2006-11-25 19:19:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't hate him, or even really dislike him. He's my best friend. But I'm done with him. Our relationship doesn't work on this level. I've tried everything to fix it, and we've been married a while. But I'm afraid he will hate me.

2006-11-25 19:19:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The best way to describe it would be to call it something like a space simulation. It is indoors and you go in and bounce around like you are out of space. Does anyone know what this is called??

2006-11-25 19:18:44 · 4 answers · asked by Ms.Diva 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a similar asset base (all set up in a trust for me) but find it hard to be around guys with money....guys with money don't wana talk to me......they'd rather talk to some d-cup pamela anderson look-alike. All i'm sayin is I'd rather be single than marry a guy who under california law is guna take 50/50

2006-11-25 19:18:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-11-25 19:18:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does that mean i dont think im a bad kisser and neither do my ex's

2006-11-25 19:18:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

friends, i'm tired after loving dis guy who is in de same university as i am in. wheneva his mood is good he'll talk else he'll ignore. my friends think i'm lying wen i tell them we have somethin b/w us coz he neva shows his emotions in front if them. he had gone for a trip in summer during which i expected that after he comes things might get changed..n it did in a bad way! we r going away from each other...i've tried to hold onto this relation for long but now my patience is breakin...he is always wid some gals i dont like..i know in de beginning wen he came back i couldnt give him dat attention i used too coz i had my exams..well i think he expected the worse thinkin i changed...but i didn't wen i got de time i tried giving him de attention but he started drifting apart..what to do?? i wish things were as blissful as they were before but its not happening...he keeps hurting me...keeps making me cry..i dont know wat to do? i was thinking of giving up...but it hurts..i keep crying!!

2006-11-25 19:17:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i have a 2yrold & 3month old twins. both are adorable im sexy.i noramly go to the beach every now & then to get some #s. heres how the conversation normaly goes.
girl: omg are those ur kids ?
me: yea
girl: there so cute !!
me: thx
girl: they look just like you !
me: really you think so ?
girl: yea & u must be a really good parent
me: oh thank u
girl: np
me: so can i get ur # ?
girl: well i bet your a good parent !
girls then walks away
me: [=/
what the hell is the good side of being a parent besides the whole oh its fun wachin them grow BS

2006-11-25 19:16:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together 9 years, and 95 percent of the time I have been significantly overweight. Over time, as all marriages do, we have become less passionate, but I am now concerned with our relationship slowly beginning to reflect our sex life as of late. We have only made love 5 times this year, which is pathetic by my standards! (and would not have been were it up to me). We have always been able to talk about anything, but this is now a very overtalked and sore subject, and neither of us have a real solution for it. I mention being overweight for obvious reasons regarding our sex life, but he has always maintained it has nothing to do with the problem. I guess I am not so much looking for answers, but more to see if anyone else out there has been in a similar situation, and how they coped.

2006-11-25 19:16:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my frend relli needs a poem thats starting wif "roses are red" for her "hw".....
n shes in a mood...again...soo i jus wana giv her the poem instead of her thinkn up one...it whud cheer her up =)

best poem ..for ur reward...

2006-11-25 19:15:44 · 11 answers · asked by Val 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 19:14:39 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 19:14:24 · 6 answers · asked by poke 1 in Family

It's not fair i just want a permanent bestie why doesn't any1 else. They hang with me for like 6 months then go. Why?

2006-11-25 19:13:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-25 19:13:21 · 6 answers · asked by Jenny R 1 in Singles & Dating

u may send this to --- sidz_luv@yahoo.com

2006-11-25 19:12:54 · 14 answers · asked by siddhi s 1 in Family

what if we are more than just friends??

2006-11-25 19:12:01 · 14 answers · asked by Stonerscientist 2 in Singles & Dating

I want real answers.

2006-11-25 19:10:34 · 33 answers · asked by jaya 2 in Family

Is it to gain approval?are they generally interested in the person they are flirting with?or do they just want something from the guy?

2006-11-25 19:10:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating