Man should hear or follow his wife or mother after marriage?

Question

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Answer 1

In my opinion, one should not follow a strict rule on whom he should follow or not.

The only criteria shall be to have his head firmly in control and the guts to say to both that right is right and wrong is wrong. No hanky panky here.

I, however, personly give more credit to my mother than wife becasue they have taken care of me to bring me to a level where I could marry my present wife.

So definitely, a person should be thankful to their parents and ultimately should know what is right and wrong and be able to convey that to both of them as well.

Answer 2

When a man gets married he is already making that choice. A husband should always be there to love and support his wife. On the other hand a mother needs to learn to let go and be supportive of her son's marriage, no matter if she likes his new wife or not. It is his choice and he loves her and that should be whats important to her.

Answer 3

If the man and his wife divorced, separated amicably and it is established that they are friends and you feel comfortable about it, by all means do so. Yo will gain a friend. As for the mother, the mother brought the person into the world, but after a man reaches adulthood, he should not, normally sever ties with her unless there is an underlying reason to do so. You be the judge!

Answer 4

If you're a man, and you're married, then your wife should come first.

When a man follows his mother instead of his wife then the marriage ends. Do you want to be married? Then your wife comes first.

Answer 5

A man chooses to marry, he chooses a new way of life, parents advise maybe good as they do have more life experiences than children, listen to parents advise and talk it over with the wife, don;t dis the wife for the mother...

Answer 6

Wife. "Two shall become one flesh"

1. Your wife is your closest relative once you marry.
2. If you are in the military service, and you die, your wife gets your casket flag not your mother.
3. You have to live with your wife everyday, not your mother. Who do you want happier? That's right, the person you have to interact with everyday.

Answer 7

Why he should follow any one"s foot path? Can"t he take his own decisions in his life? He can discuss and take a joint decission with wife or mother, The decision can be made by the mother or fathere or wife or himself, It does not mean that he should follow any one"s footsteps in his life. He can respect the mother"s ideas and also wife"s. He can marry so many wives in his life time(of course divorcing them one by one) but u can"t get another mother , Follow God:s advices.

Answer 8

He may want to follow/side with the wife UNLESS he wants to go back to living with his mother! Your future is with the Mrs. honey, not the mommy. Time to cut the apron strings and tell mom to give you some breathing room.

Answer 9

Why would you decide to marry someone and make them unhappy by listening more to your Mom than your wife? Unless your wife consents to asking your Mom for advice, you have no business listening to your Mom.... always tell your Mom that you will get back with her after discussing her opinion or wish with your wife first.

Answer 10

a boy grows into a man. than he leaves is parents to start his own family with his WIFE. his mother may give him advice but his WIFE is his mate. his WIFE is going to be there in sickness and health. his WIFE is the one who will bear his children. his WIFE is the one that GOD put here on earth to keep man company, that's your WIFE!!!!