I have a similar asset base (all set up in a trust for me) but find it hard to be around guys with money....guys with money don't wana talk to me......they'd rather talk to some d-cup pamela anderson look-alike. All i'm sayin is I'd rather be single than marry a guy who under california law is guna take 50/50
2006-11-25 19:18:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I read this like you and him both have alot of money - is that right??? I see some answers from others that don't seem to read it like I do. Please clarify.
If I am right then you should just put the idea of money behind you. Being that you are both going in this with similar assets then don't worry about it! Have fun with it! Live your life to the fullest without restrictions. Most of us (at least I know me) have to live life restricted because of finances. Enjoy yourself!
2006-11-26 01:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by melodi_jean_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you have that asset base...then just follow your life and please DO something with it---even a job, an organization volunteer---to fulfill YOU and don't let your assets turn you into a societal parasite---when you go out among the masses he'll be there, but if you carry your assets as a shield he will never notice you. Yes get a pre-nup---with a great lawyer, in fact do that now so that when the time comes he knows the template was not written with HIM in mind.
And accept the reality that he may have nothing and the only thing he can give you is himself---how much is that worth to you?
2006-11-26 10:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My thoughts would be, find someone that you love, and who loves you in return. Quit thinking about men that are looking to be with pamela, or men after your money. Just be yourself. Look towards a good pre-nup. If the man loves you for you, then he will sign it, without question.
2006-11-26 03:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by twinkies2469 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but I think that you shouldn't flaunt how much you have in a trust fund. Ladies can be terrible. Haven't you seen all those murder/death mysteries where the husband dies under mysterious circumstances? Don't tell the lady you're rich.
2006-11-26 12:29:14 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Nina♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is blind, and so is a pre-nup. Your problem is that your more focused on the money, when your eyes are no longer green you will find you one and only, or two.
2006-11-26 03:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has always been my experience that guys who "make money" are usually attracted to women who are capable of doing the same.
2006-11-26 10:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by Aurora 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say 'I do' and have a prenup. Not all men want those fake boobs and dumb blond looks. You just need to be patient and enjoy your life and if mister right comes along, you will know it.
2006-11-26 03:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by Twisted Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do what you feel its right and fair for you; money is not an issue; so do what you feel like; maybe he is a good person and why not to give it a chance; you will enjoy the money too;which is going to be nice..... i guess.....:)
2006-11-26 03:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by zinaa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to marry to a broke A** when you are already sorted financially just wait your day will come and you'll find your match..
2006-11-26 03:39:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry for love not money
2006-11-26 09:35:04 · answer #10 · answered by bnannners 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋