ok i have a 2yrold & 3month old twins. both are adorable im sexy.i noramly go to the beach every now & then to get some #s. heres how the conversation normaly goes.
girl: omg are those ur kids ?
me: yea
girl: there so cute !!
me: thx
girl: they look just like you !
me: really you think so ?
girl: yea & u must be a really good parent
me: oh thank u
girl: np
me: so can i get ur # ?
girl: well i bet your a good parent !
girls then walks away
me: [=/
what the hell is the good side of being a parent besides the whole oh its fun wachin them grow BS
2006-11-25 19:16:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Children are bundles of joy, you learn to love them.
2006-11-25 19:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by Licious 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I guess it all depends on whether you are thinking with your head or another body part.
The good sides of being a parent include:
* The love you give and get from them.
* The knowledge that they are the best part of
you.
* The pride you feel when they do something
for the first time.
* Hugs, cuddles & kisses for no other reason
than they want to.
* The fun you get playing & looking after them.
* Being able to teach them morals and how to
behave.
I'd choose being a mummy over anything else in the world, sure, it isn't always easy and nappies can be a nightmare but the good points always outweigh the bad points.
2006-11-26 03:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by madamspud 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where is the mother of your kids? Are you not still with her? If not, why are you trying to pick up on chicks by using your kids? I can tell you right now what the girls are probably thinking... yeah, the guy has cute kids, he is cute, but the kids mom is somewhere probably still in the picture, (and last but most important), what could you possibly offer them?!? You are emotionally tied up with these kids as well as financially strapped with the responsibility of footing the bill to raise 3 kids!!!??? You, my friend are spread way too thin. So you didn't think about these things BEFORE you chose to reproduce? Amazing.
2006-11-26 03:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by lesliejay63 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the turnoff is the fact that you're trying to pick up chicks at the beach when you obviously have some baggage!
Unless you can truthfully say something like, "Yeah, but it's so tough being a SINGLE PARENT (hint, hint)", stop hitting on the ladies with your kids around. Sheesh!
2006-11-26 03:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by catwomanmeeeeow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve children if you think this way. There's more to life than walking around the beach being "sexy" to impress people. Whether you want to face it or not, your children are a part of you. For heaven's sake, you made them! They're your treasures to love and nurture forever. You either need to fulfill this role or give them to their mother or a relative who can be a parent.
2006-11-26 03:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by snapessxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. lol. Hey! You're telling me! My soccer career was about to go pro before I had my first kid, and I never rebounded after that. For a while there I was blaming my son, but I got over it. I got a better career instead. Sometimes I'm just so mad though.
2006-11-26 03:21:20 · answer #6 · answered by sssstressedmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a single parent is hard work. Concentrate more on your children and less on trying to find a man.
This would scare off any guy.....
Your a guy OMG, run....
2006-11-26 03:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ha... you shouldn't be a parent. You're a disgrace. Using your kids to get numbers??? Grow up. Are those two sets of kids by two different baby mommas? Yeah I bet they are.............ewwwwww
2006-11-26 03:20:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you probably should have thought about that before you had unprotected sex....at least twice. kids do tend to put a damper on picking up chicks.
2006-11-26 03:20:25 · answer #9 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um... You didn't stay with the mother of the children? That's not cool, dude.
2006-11-26 03:20:39 · answer #10 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋