friends, i'm tired after loving dis guy who is in de same university as i am in. wheneva his mood is good he'll talk else he'll ignore. my friends think i'm lying wen i tell them we have somethin b/w us coz he neva shows his emotions in front if them. he had gone for a trip in summer during which i expected that after he comes things might get changed..n it did in a bad way! we r going away from each other...i've tried to hold onto this relation for long but now my patience is breakin...he is always wid some gals i dont like..i know in de beginning wen he came back i couldnt give him dat attention i used too coz i had my exams..well i think he expected the worse thinkin i changed...but i didn't wen i got de time i tried giving him de attention but he started drifting apart..what to do?? i wish things were as blissful as they were before but its not happening...he keeps hurting me...keeps making me cry..i dont know wat to do? i was thinking of giving up...but it hurts..i keep crying!!
2006-11-25 19:17:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You want him? Then ignore him. He knows he can come back to you anytime. So he's not sweating. Act like you have better things to do and don't give him the time of day when he wants it. When you ddo this make it last for longer than 20 min.......if you feel hot- bounce. Show little emotion as possible. Own it- control it. You'll have him spinning if you can keep it up for a couple of months. Even when you have him, don't let him slip back into the same pattern. Keep a chase, keep his mind. No more tears- save it for the pillow and make sure you look good to the world
2006-11-25 19:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by Miss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years 4 months 13 days 7 hours 58 minutes and 24 seconds (unless of course one of those years is a leap year, then you can subtract a day)
2006-11-26 03:19:58 · answer #2 · answered by Devo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much you love him and whether or not he loved you back.... which from the sounds of it, he didn't. Move on girl because everyone deserves someone to love them and make them happy, not make them cry. It will be hard at first, but it will pay off in the long run.
2006-11-26 03:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by jasam4ever08 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem like yours.... i guess sometime, if you really love someone, you need to have the guts to ask.. ask him what he wants and what you mean to him. got the answer and act on it. i hate to guess. i hate to wonder what he or she thinks. is not childs play. so go up to him and ask him. but be smart what he told you, some people like to lie and you should be smart enough to judge. And for sure, there are plenty more good guys waiting for you. Do or Do Not....there is No Try!! Good Luck..
2006-11-26 03:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by Nemo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk... get rid of him the sooner the better - it might hurt for a while, but you'll be much better off without him.
2006-11-26 03:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by vestifarian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just broke up with my gf of 2 and a half year yesturday, I'll tell you when I'm over it.
2006-11-26 03:19:30 · answer #6 · answered by trial and error 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As quick as I find another date, I'll immediately get over that other someone.
2006-11-26 03:20:51 · answer #7 · answered by James 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋