Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

How do u get ur ex back in a difficult time 4 u????
My girlfriend broke up wit me 6 weeks ago cus of something i said in bad temper. I was stressed at finding out my mum mite have cancer again and i was very sick myself. She said she only broke up wit cus wat i said meant i didn't trust her. we were really in love and she said that when we broke up up she wud still always love me but when i pressured her she said she didn't love me. I have found out that i mite have cancer at 19 years of age and im nervously waiting on test results, i love her and need her support. how do i go about getting her bak cus i really need her now

I really love this girl and i really want 2 b with her,i always trusted her.

2006-11-25 23:23:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 23:23:29 · 16 answers · asked by gulfhorizone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-25 23:22:38 · 2 answers · asked by toysoldier 1 in Marriage & Divorce

on the way takein him i was fushing an we stop at the store he took his key ringoff my keys,i asked him why he said he just wanted his keys.ok when we got their i asked him did he want me to pick him up he said no but you could get your suff. does that mean we are threw or what ?i know he loves me but everyone told me even him that he needs his space sometime but i couldnt do it because i love him so damn much im hurting i want to know what to do and is he thinking of me like im thinking of him im trying to give him a chance before i go talk to him please tell me what to do please please .

2006-11-25 23:20:17 · 5 answers · asked by sweetazzgurl901 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what about family??...only my parents and parents-in-law know about our financial situation...not the brothers and sisters or even best friends..I feel it´s better not to know...

2006-11-25 23:18:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how do u know if a guy really likes u or not?

2006-11-25 23:16:20 · 16 answers · asked by -x-Alice-x- 1 in Singles & Dating

I love this boy callled nick he is so hot i would do everything for him i really want to kiss him and get off wih him what should i do help also i dream about him every night help me

2006-11-25 23:16:08 · 3 answers · asked by i love nick Charlie 1 in Friends

There's this guy that I've been in a FWB (friends w/benefits)situation with for the past three months. Recently he decided he wants to end the sexual aspect and remain friends. When I told him, "No sex, no friendship", he got super pissed, saying I was "using him as a sexual object".

So after we determined that we're going to move forward as just friends, he approached me with this project he wants to work with me on. However, he's always making one excuse or another about why he can't initiate or complete a project.

So when he approached me today about this one, I asked him if he was serious this time around. He got upset and told me that I'm too judgemental. I've told him before that he has great ideas but he needs to build up his confidence. If I had half the talent he did, I'd be super successful.

If he knows I'm going to tell him the same thing, why does he keep asking me for advice? Do you think that he has feelings for me?

2006-11-25 23:15:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Met a guy on new years he was starring at me 4, 40 mins b4 he came up 2 me.. not that i noticed but his friend told me when i was chatting, we kissed got on & arranged a date. He had just broken up from his girlfriend of 2 yrs. He couldnt take his eyes of me & was really nervous when we went on a date. at that time i was having a dilemma with my career..i did tell him but i dont thinkhe fully understood... i acted erraticly like an absolute nut i was feeling very insecure and on my own..things ended & that was that. I saw him out a few time he kept on starring at me & asking about me to my friends. Once i was chatting to another guy in this bar & he brought a girl infront of me & started to hug her & then to look over at me.He once grabbed my friend to say i was strange i texted him last week to say sorry 4 my strange behaviour & 'jokingly' should i still b locked up he txt'd back 'dont worry about it it doesnt matter. Glad u & ur friend can laugh at it.Take care' what does this mean

2006-11-25 23:14:43 · 4 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi everyone. I´m a 26 yr old gay man who´s been dating this guy for about a month now. We only see each other in the weekends and we seem to click and get along. Lately ive been preoccupied because he takes days to answer my text messages and it always seems to be taking the initiative to go out or whatever. The thing is I told him twice that I like him and he responded likewise. But I just don´t feel the vibes that tell you the guy likes you and also he´s not very affectionate. I know i´m affectionate but some guys just aren´t , isn´t that so? I´m really confused i don´t know if i´m just booty call or whatever. I really want some advise! Thanks

2006-11-25 23:13:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does she want anything else ??

2006-11-25 23:12:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am asking because my husband has changed. He goes over his "best friend's" house EVERY weekend with out fail to make music (thats what he says but I don't believe it). When we first met, His *** was tight (very athletic). Now it giggles!!!! I never saw a man's behind giggle and be soOo loose. When he goes over there for the weekend he turns his phone off or puts it on silent. and when he finally answers the phone, he whispers. He says its because their working on lots of music but when he gives me a copy of their music, it's only like one song on the cd.
One day we were watching RENT and on a particular scene between the gay lovers, he began to cry!! That day I went and took an AIDS test. I am happy to say that I am negative and since I took the test, I haven't had sex with him and its been 3 months. I don't even look at him the same way. I feel that something weird is going on... what do you guys think???

2006-11-25 23:09:30 · 23 answers · asked by need help 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just brokeup with my boyfriend wich i was 1 year and 7 months toghether.He just suddenley didn't called me, didn't answered to my calls and messages anymore(he's in other country).I'm sad cause i love him very much..:( and i don't know how to act in this situation now.Should i act in the same way..like to not call him anymore?Just to clean it from my mind forever..,to not know nothing about him never?i really need some advice..Thank you

2006-11-25 23:08:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If a guy left a message on your voice mail asking you out for a specific date a few days away, do you think that's wimpy or not the correct way? Do you call back, or do you wait till he gets you live on the phone to ask you?

2006-11-25 23:06:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 23:06:22 · 29 answers · asked by Mr Cynical 5 in Marriage & Divorce

both me and this guy have a mutual friend who introduced us.The guy liked me and wanted an introduction.we got on and as he works near me i c him a lot.
he later told me our mutual friend was stressing him out and kept telling him to treat me right of else(they work together)and that if it would carry on he would beat him up.we both laughed about this as our mutual friend seemed to think that as he had introduced us this guy owed it to him to tell him everything we had done on our dates etc.our mutulual friend even said to me he had been watching us from the window of his building when we left the pub on our first date!
on friday the mutual friend came to my shop and started banging on about how this guy(who had started ignoring me)-had a problem and wouldnt say what it was.I have text this guy three times now to c whats wrong and he is ignoring me-what shall i do?

2006-11-25 23:04:49 · 9 answers · asked by saffron s 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 23:04:38 · 18 answers · asked by sak 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think I like this woman. I met her purely as just a friend, but as the time goes, I found myself I am very interested in her.

I think I like her because she is just like me. The way she talks, her personality, her view of the world.

But while she is attractive to me, she is not nice to me.

Of course, she has never said any words that hurt my feeling, but she ignores if I leave her messages and invite her for the activity.

So I got upset and decided, "there are many nice girls out there... I'll just forget her."

But I have not been able to do so. I lashed out myself, "come on, you do not even have a dignity within yourself?" but as time goes, I just can not forget about her.

What should I do?

And how can I maker her to be nice to me?

2006-11-25 23:03:39 · 8 answers · asked by davegesprek 1 in Singles & Dating

I just realized i ve been on here for the past 4 hours and it's almost 4am! If you are in the same boat then I guess you can't sleep and youre bored like me right?

2006-11-25 22:57:03 · 18 answers · asked by chaseki 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 22:56:26 · 14 answers · asked by suraj r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a girl in my class has a BIG crush on my friend (also in the class) ..but my friend already has a gf but hasnt told her yet...after she finds out the hard way how long do u think she will get over him? and perhaps....come to me hehe ";,,;" rawr ...btw this is high school im talking bout

2006-11-25 22:55:43 · 7 answers · asked by adfs a 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are having some problems. We've been together for a year and a half and things seem kind of distant lately. We are currently on a break to see if maybe we just need some time away from each other.. but we love each other very much.. just have run out of things to talk about.. why is that!? :( Help!

2006-11-25 22:55:28 · 7 answers · asked by Naomi F 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend is not talking to me since thursday. i sent him a message on friday but he did not reply. i am calling him, he is not replying my messages and calls. what could be wrong with him? i don't know why he is behaving like that. we did not fight. he never gets angry with me. he is a cool and nice human being.

What should I do???
Please tell me

Will he ever talk to me again??

Why is he behaving this way??

it's been 4 days that he is not talking to me.

2006-11-25 22:55:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and wot kind of place do you stay in? Here the weather is really mild, really pleasent....a little chilly at nite otherwise really pleasent...and i stay in the fourth floor of an apartment and when i look out of the window i can see green trees, and birds....

2006-11-25 22:54:01 · 6 answers · asked by danny's mom 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-25 22:53:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is my ex gf asks my friends if I have a new g/f She dumped me and she went out with a different guy She seems happy with him but why is she asking my friends if I have a new gf

2006-11-25 22:51:21 · 13 answers · asked by realsync1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-25 22:46:48 · 16 answers · asked by JOHNNY D 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 22:46:04 · 11 answers · asked by aditi g 1 in Singles & Dating

i met my husband 19 years aga i was 16 hes 21we had twin daughters in when i was 18 we got married when i was 19 weve had our ups and downs like anyone else but i thought we were happy he started a new job 3 months ago two weeks ago found out he has been seeing a nineteen year old from work for six weeks i threw him out but he still with this girl think its disgusting considering his own daughters turn 18 in january since he been with this girl he has had contact once with his daughters with a five minute visit outside there collage i hate him so much much but deep down cant imagine my life without him been with him so long but i just hope i have the last laugh when the girl looks at him one day and says why am i with u and meets someone her own age and ends up with nobody cos he has give them all up for her what are your veiws on this situation and what do you make of it thanks

2006-11-25 22:42:12 · 27 answers · asked by penny c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Basically my dad is going to marry the woman he had an affair with years ago that split my parents up. My dad has hardly ever invited her along whenever I'm around, and all I know of her is the woman who he had the affair with. She doesn't make an effort and I really don't like her. I don't understand why they are getting married now when they've been on and off for years. What do I do?

2006-11-25 22:41:42 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings