Hi everyone. I´m a 26 yr old gay man who´s been dating this guy for about a month now. We only see each other in the weekends and we seem to click and get along. Lately ive been preoccupied because he takes days to answer my text messages and it always seems to be taking the initiative to go out or whatever. The thing is I told him twice that I like him and he responded likewise. But I just don´t feel the vibes that tell you the guy likes you and also he´s not very affectionate. I know i´m affectionate but some guys just aren´t , isn´t that so? I´m really confused i don´t know if i´m just booty call or whatever. I really want some advise! Thanks
2006-11-25 23:13:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you should not be serious about him because of his lack of interest on you. Find another guy.
2006-11-25 23:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to break it to you, but it is possible that he doesn't feel the same way toward you as you feel toward him.
However!!! It is impossible for you to know how he thinks, and how he feels unless you find out from him, and even then he has the OPTION to lie to you, if it suits his agenda.
Now, true, not all guys are affectionate, however... when in a situation such as yours, talking it out with him in person is the best way to resolve this... I suggest asking him exactly what he wants and expects from you in your relationship (eg. booty call, friendship, friendship with benefits, relationship, long-term relationship)...
once you find out what he wants and expects, you should discuss how you feel about it, and also (if you feel positively about it) how you plan on making that work (eg, if LTR, maybe going out together more often)
Also, although I will not profess knowing the person you have been dating, I would like to remind you that he may not be out yet, and therefore could have difficulties with relationships seeming "too risky"...
So, summary: talk with him, it's the best solution... and probably, the only one.
2006-11-29 19:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Zack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to really sit down and talk to him. Maybe there's another reason for his behaviour? He might be worried about seeming too keen, which some people can find off putting. Try not to worry too much, Just have a chat with him. I'm sure things will be fine! :)
Goodluck to the both of you. Btw, ignore the rude man's comment (first on the list) he's self absorbed, so pay no notice!
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2016-10-13 03:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by cutburth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be uncomfortable about being gay, sit down and talk honestly about your feelings.
2006-11-25 23:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the hell out of here, fruit loop.
2006-11-25 23:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he wants ur money ONLY!!, not ur love... jaz play with him so won't be hurt..
2006-11-25 23:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should have a discission with him
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