I think I like this woman. I met her purely as just a friend, but as the time goes, I found myself I am very interested in her.
I think I like her because she is just like me. The way she talks, her personality, her view of the world.
But while she is attractive to me, she is not nice to me.
Of course, she has never said any words that hurt my feeling, but she ignores if I leave her messages and invite her for the activity.
So I got upset and decided, "there are many nice girls out there... I'll just forget her."
But I have not been able to do so. I lashed out myself, "come on, you do not even have a dignity within yourself?" but as time goes, I just can not forget about her.
What should I do?
And how can I maker her to be nice to me?
2006-11-25 23:03:39 · 8 answers · asked by davegesprek 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way, she does not do anything wrong to me, except she just does not respond to me.
2006-11-25 23:05:59 · update #1
I hate myself for liking this woman, who does not respect me. I wish I forget about her and go find another woman, but I can not forget her.
2006-11-25 23:07:38 · update #2
you seem like a very deep person and i'm guessing that the reason she ignores you is because she is not at that point in her life where she is ready to be in a serious(meaningful/intense) relationship. so, in her opinion, you are also coming on too hard. while you both see the world the same way, she probably isn't ready to live it in the same way. i would stop contacting her. give her the distance she desires. you can't make her return your calls. its time to stop telling yourself that she will call back...you're worth more than that. now i'm not doubting that she is worth your interest, because there is a reason you like her so much, but you need to expand your interactions with other woman. you are sure to find one that shares the same qualities as you and also respects you as a person. well...good luck!
2006-11-26 04:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by goldenmarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why bother this is how it will go. First couple of months lots of sex and really in love. Then you will nick pick at each other then you will fight all the time. Then towards the end you will have a big break up and hate each other. You will get drunk miss her and wish you two didn't split. Its how it goes all the time
2006-11-25 23:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try once more, but I do not know how the result comes , as for me, If I am not interested in the person, his effort is in vain. but I think I should change a little bit, you know every girl is different, so it worth a try good luck ! :-)
2006-11-25 23:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by elf.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing... just leave her alone... don't waste your time on her... i think you can't seem to forget her coz part of you doesn't want to but be head strong... i know you can but it will take some time before you do... go out and meet new people...
2006-11-25 23:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by Carte Blanche 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can make anybody be nice to you. MOve on find some one who is nice
2006-11-25 23:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U cannot thrust urself on any body.
2006-11-25 23:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just let her go
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2006-11-25 23:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to be natural
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2006-11-25 23:04:50 · answer #8 · answered by dana brown 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋