Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

I'm asking this guy to the dance...and i dont know if im supposed ot pay for dinner and get him a butoneir [sp?]

if i get him the butoneir, do i still give it to him if i dont get a corsage?

im os confused. as you can see i've never done this before...sooo....

2006-11-25 18:43:31 · 10 answers · asked by zacefron.nd.jmac.lvr 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I'm 22 and god knows how old I look... probably 26-30. I can’t be dating women my age because I need someone with a bit more life experience, so she can understand and appreciate me and my lifestyle. So I look for women around the age of 25-28 years old for rite now. The thing is I can never tell how old you women are when I approach you! I don’t tell you my age because you probably wouldn’t believe me and I don’t ask yours because it’s rude!

Are there any signs I can tell how old a woman is? Any trade secrets women?

Don’t feel like you are betraying your sex I just always seem to be asking out women who are 10+ years older then me and then they freak out when they find out how old I am.

Please don’t point grub and resound “age is just a number” I will spank you!

2006-11-25 18:42:29 · 8 answers · asked by Low 2 in Singles & Dating

rich guy (likes to travel, eat good food, massages, servants etc)
guitar player (like a john mayer dude but not FAMOUS)
bad boy (a nice guy that does bad stuff like sell stolen goods)

let's say these guys all have a great personality and treat girls with respect. Which one would u prefer the most? and only pick one

2006-11-25 18:42:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i have a job interview at macys on monday...and it my first job interview so i need to know what kind of question they ask and what is appropriate answers...plz help

2006-11-25 18:41:46 · 3 answers · asked by april 1 in Friends

2006-11-25 18:41:28 · 13 answers · asked by r_sehgal 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 18:41:25 · 13 answers · asked by rusalka 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i have a 2yrold & 3month old twins. both are adorable im sexy.i noramly go to the beach every now & then to get some #s. heres how the conversation normaly goes.
girl: omg are those ur kids ?
me: yea
girl: there so cute !!
me: thx
girl: they look just like you !
me: really you think so ?
girl: yea & u must be a really good parent
me: oh thank u
girl: np
me: so can i get ur # ?
girl: well i bet your a good parent !
girls then walks away
me: [=/
what the hell is the good side of being a parent besides the whole oh its fun wachin them grow BS.

2006-11-25 18:41:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like my best friend so i asked her out but she said no. We are still best friends and since she knows that i like her she trusts me and tells me everything(including some things i don't want to know). But in return i get to tell her everything and hug her and stuff so it is really cool. Even though i know i've got a sweet deal and she says that we can go out when we get a little older i dont want to wait. What should i do???

2006-11-25 18:36:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I were to sleep with a friend who is in my "group" of friends, and not expect anything more to come of it, am I stupid for 1? and is their any chance that everyone will not find out about it? I don't want a boyfriend out of the situation, nor do I want to have a one night stand with someone I don't know. I'm afraid of something embarrassing happening that would prevent us from being able to look each other in the eye.

2006-11-25 18:35:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been really close recently and are contemplating moving in together into an apartment. He sometimes needs to work during the weekend. He told me he would be working on Saturday. On Satuday night I did not go out with friends but waited for him. He came over very late and left early in the morning, because he needed to work for "a few more hours". He called me in the evening of Sunday - said he needed to go out afterwards with his friends.

I felt annoyed. After a weekend of working and leaving me alone he chose to go out with friends for dinner. At least he could ask me whether i would like to go with him? I am not sure now whether i should take a step back and review the decision to move in with him. If we live together and this happens i will be more annoyed i guess...am i over-reacting?

2006-11-25 18:35:57 · 4 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and a friend who are both in internet relationships where wondering if the reason neither of us have had fights with our bf/gf is cos its only over the net atm or is it just who we are?

what do ppl think :P im wondering what other ppl think of this idea :)

2006-11-25 18:35:46 · 4 answers · asked by Wonx2150 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 18:33:54 · 7 answers · asked by Eraq 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl I love. It started out as a friendship when I was 16 I am now 24 and over this time I grew to love her. I have allowed her to break my heart in the past. She recently came back in contact with me and was talking about how lonely she was. When I brought up the time that I confessed my feelings for her she seemed to be excited that i still felt the same way. We kissed that night for the first time and she invited me to come stay with her(she lives in another town). When I went to see her we hung out and then she wanted me to sleep in her bed with her. I was making moves but she didnt responed in bed(I stayed two nights both nights I tried) the last day she seemed to retract from my kisses. I asked her if she wanted to start a relationship and she said it wouldnt work because we live in two diffrent towns. I am hurt again and dont know what to do. I think she likes to make me suffer am I wrong?

2006-11-25 18:32:25 · 13 answers · asked by kindaworried 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-25 18:32:25 · 11 answers · asked by jaspriya m 2 in Singles & Dating

how old were you when you lost your virginity?....to who and where?

Me....21yr old, my husband on the night of our wedding in the hotel.

2006-11-25 18:31:33 · 28 answers · asked by ♥chicagurl♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 18:31:32 · 5 answers · asked by srk 1 in Friends

Is it bad luck for the Groom to see the wedding dress before the wedding or the bride in her wedding dress before the wedding?

2006-11-25 18:31:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

See, we have been flirting all the time and we both having fun doing so. To make a long story short, I have already told him a few times that I enjoy hanging with him, flirting and all, but I don't want anything serious. I am not looking for a boyfriend.

The thing is that: he is getting more and more serious. He has been telling how much he likes me and asking me to hang out with him like all the time.

I can see we become really good friends you know, but nothing more. I don't want to lose this friendship thing by telling him I am serious about not wanting to date. Is there the best subtle way to say it?

2006-11-25 18:29:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just learned that my 12 year old daugther is not my biological daughther. She's the daughther of my wife's old flame. I have been married to myy wife for 11 years. We got married while I was in undergrad and when she moved in with me she was already carrying what I thought was my kid and didn't tell me until 3 months later. Now I learn that I am not the biological father. When the news was revealed, she immediately connected with this man whom she claim to not spoken with in over 14 years. Just recently she reconnected with him and had an affair with him. I have an kid(4 years old) outside of our marriage which I thought we had worked through those issues and I let everything out in the open with my affair. But for her to have deceived me for so many years I can't help but think she trapped me. I was willing to stay after finding out the paternity but for her to continue to have relations and affairs with this man after the fact is unsettling. any advice

2006-11-25 18:29:45 · 11 answers · asked by duped36 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I tell my girlfriend that she is beautiful and she always says she isnt. She says that shes heard it all before and she thinks im lying. Ive been with her for almost 2years and she still doesnt belive me.

2006-11-25 18:29:37 · 4 answers · asked by ginamylove417 1 in Singles & Dating

i still have feelings for him.....we have learned alot from each other,and i know i have hurt him(blame my tart tongue,and he is a very sensitive Scorpio,if that means anything.I am an Aries),Anyways,he has been wooing me again after nearly a 4 month hiatus and i want to give it another shot but i don't want to be a fool again,by him shutting me out because i had said some hurtful things.We talked it over about what bothers us and how we should communicate more.Should i give it another shot.I really care about him.

2006-11-25 18:28:23 · 2 answers · asked by bonnyfide2000 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys why do you do this!.....?
Guys, why is it that even though YOU dumped a girl you may still wanna "hang out" with her? My ex-bf dumped me 8 months ago but he told me now that I should contact him to "hang out". What did he REALLY say and mean???
And why does he wanna be friends NOW, after all this time? He told we should hang out when I saw him at our university campus that we both attend.
By the way, it's NOT a booty call cuz I never had sex with him cuz I'm saving it for marriage:)

2006-11-25 18:28:20 · 9 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

when I was with my daughter father, he cheated on me quit a bit and he beat me relentlessly, none of wich started until after my daughter was born. when I confronted him about cheating he would just beat the crap out of me. I know all that is in my past. but because of him not only did I lose my child but I am haveing trouble trusting any guy. the past 3 relationships that I have had ended because I had trouble trusting them. I know not all men are like my ex. and I want to find someone to love and be loved back. but I need to beable to trust the guys. any tips on how to start trusting again?

2006-11-25 18:27:01 · 8 answers · asked by sweet sweet me 3 in Singles & Dating

and I mean actully go somewhere

2006-11-25 18:26:36 · 25 answers · asked by baby_girl. 3 in Singles & Dating

My man banged the hell out of me even tough he saw a wrom come out my behind is that strong or what?

2006-11-25 18:26:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

come on girls your man is a man but here and there we catch them doing something feminen (watch sex and the city etc etc)

2006-11-25 18:23:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been driving a girl i kno to work in the mornings and on the way home. we used to never talk now were friends. The other day she really opened up to me about some problems shes had and i realized i had feelings for her and im kind of scared now. we try hang out on the weekends and stuff but for some reason or another each weekend it gets put off i really want this to become more then a friendship. Do i make a move and try to kiss her.... or tell her how i feel.

2006-11-25 18:23:05 · 9 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Friends

my mother in law is probing my life I am trying to get a job off island on the big island my wife says she wont move with me. my job history since i moved here hasnt been great. what should i do

2006-11-25 18:22:47 · 2 answers · asked by miller4000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When I get embarrassed or shy I blush and my guy friend will point it out to me when he says to me "that guy is checking you out..." and then I start blushing and he points it out and I get even MORE RED!..do guys think it is ugly/embarrassing/stupid if a girl blushes easily?

2006-11-25 18:22:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she is drunk almost every night. (75 to 80 % of them)

2006-11-25 18:19:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships