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See, we have been flirting all the time and we both having fun doing so. To make a long story short, I have already told him a few times that I enjoy hanging with him, flirting and all, but I don't want anything serious. I am not looking for a boyfriend.

The thing is that: he is getting more and more serious. He has been telling how much he likes me and asking me to hang out with him like all the time.

I can see we become really good friends you know, but nothing more. I don't want to lose this friendship thing by telling him I am serious about not wanting to date. Is there the best subtle way to say it?

2006-11-25 18:29:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

9 answers

no there is not. We are men, we tend to think differently than you do and when attracted find it almost impossible to take a hint. Straight up like a shot of whiskey generally does the trick and saves everybody some heartache in the long run. I doubt you will lose a friend if you really had one.

2006-11-25 18:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

He wants to get in your pants. You know that and holding him off with excuses. Not good. The best thing for you to do is telling him the trues. I dont want to have sex with you, period. Well, you lose a friend but you have to be fare. If you keep teasing the guy with flirting etc. etc. it will only get worse. Think about it.

2006-11-26 06:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by redacatfish 2 · 1 0

tell him nicely that you're not really looking for a relationship right now but just want to be friends and also try telling him that the flirting part was probably just mere infatuation and nothing like wanting to be serious. mention to him that you wld still lyk to be friends and do not want to lose the friendship although you do nt want to be serious. good luck!

2006-11-26 02:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by mapgal 2 · 0 0

Just tell him. guys are NOT good at picking up the "so called subtle" signs women send out and think we can read. most guys will appreciate your honosty if u tell him u only like him as a firend

2006-11-26 02:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by DA-LL /Male/ 3 · 1 0

dont be rude right just say your goin threw things and that your not ready to have a boy f make sum b/s up

2006-11-26 02:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by wesv6589 3 · 0 0

Cheat him. Go on some date with his best friend and he will leave you.

2006-11-26 02:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by Abrar 1 · 0 0

just tell him that you love the relationship you have now and you dont want to ruin it by having sex...lets face it, sex changes everything.

2006-11-26 02:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by beb27 3 · 0 0

Cut his ******* balls off if he gets near you again. There are other ways though, I believe.

2006-11-26 02:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by BiggusDickus 3 · 0 0

tell him your not interested in him that way.

2006-11-26 02:32:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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