Me and a friend who are both in internet relationships where wondering if the reason neither of us have had fights with our bf/gf is cos its only over the net atm or is it just who we are?
what do ppl think :P im wondering what other ppl think of this idea :)
2006-11-25 18:35:46 · 4 answers · asked by Wonx2150 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
though i should mention :P me and my gf been together just under a year its about 1 month away now :) and my friend im not sure a month or 2 :)
2006-11-25 18:44:44 · update #1
how long have the relationships been? it could be because you are very compatible there is no room for arguments, but unless the relationship is quite new, i highly doubt that. it could be because since you're not exactly face to face when disagreeing, there is time to cool off before anything is spoken.
2006-11-25 18:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by Bubuchachum 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be either one. From experience, it is probably because your relationships are confined to the internet. Talking and chatting is a lot easier than actually managing a relationship in real life. There are jobs to go to, bills to pay, litter boxes to be cleaned, annoying personal habits to overcome, etc.
It's also possible that you have found someone who you have a harmonious relationship with and that may very well carry over into real life. Either way, I'm glad things are going well so far and wish you the best of luck in the future.
P.S. My current sweetie and I met over the net and had the same thoughts as you. We got along great and we've been together in real life for just over 3 months now (total of 5 months including net time). Naturally, things are a LOT more complicated now that we're actually living together and we have had a couple of fights but they were small and we got through them just fine. As long as you and net-sweetie are honest with each other and make sure that you both know what to expect from each other, things will go great!
2006-11-25 19:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by SuperJulie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have a long distance relationship, you dont see each other too much... You dont have much of a chance to get annoyed by all the "little things in life".
Its great that you dont fight right now. You are builiding a strong foundation for you relationship right now.
When you finally get to live in close proximity with the person, you will finally discover if you are truely compatible.
You can also examine your relationship right now. Check out this article about how to recognize the early warning signs of an early relationship.
http://wehow.ehow.com/how_2004116_identify-early-warning-signs-disastrous-relationship.html
2006-11-29 09:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by want2knowsoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its cause u never met. when people are together in a relationship u will fight. everyone does no matter what.
2006-11-25 18:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by DA-LL /Male/ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋