my mother in law is probing my life I am trying to get a job off island on the big island my wife says she wont move with me. my job history since i moved here hasnt been great. what should i do
2006-11-25 18:22:47 · 2 answers · asked by miller4000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
are you only getting a job off island to avoid the mother in law? Have you and your wife discussed the potential of obtaining employment either on the island or off? It is a family decision - you can't force her to move - and she can't force you to stay - but then again neither can force the other to stay married. If you can't make a decision on this together ............ well - what's the point in being married?
2006-11-25 19:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by playing_shy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife needs to grow up and go with you so you can provide for your family. It would do you both good to get completely away from the meddling if this is hurting your marriage. My brother had to do that.
2006-11-26 02:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋