Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

I was driving home from work and I realized that some of us who can be labelled "good citizen" because we're not in jail do break some rules in a regular basis while driving or god knows where but we just dont get caught. how many of those rules have you broken today?

2006-11-25 17:36:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently moved to Ohio from Utah in which I was considered common law married. The reason for the move was my job. Well my (common law) wife recently came down with an illness and I had to take time off of work to talk care of her and the two children. During this time I have turned in a form called FLMA. I was denied because we are not considered married in the state of OHIO. Last year I filed my tax returns with her as married and assumed to be married in Utah. I found a website which said there is a law saying that they recognize out of state marriages but did not go into detail about it. My work has told me that in order to get the FLMA I must show proof that Ohio does recognize out of state marriages and wanted to know if anyone could point me in the right direction.

Thanks,
Brian Workman

2006-11-25 17:36:08 · 4 answers · asked by Brian 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys are such wimps today! They cry! Like little babies! Just because their girl dumped them! For chrissakes, will you stop..., huh? Geez...

2006-11-25 17:35:40 · 14 answers · asked by Number1son 3 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and i'm guessing he's kinda interested in me. The thing is:
-last time I saw him was a week ago
-school's over and we're now in finals so chances of meeting him are very low
-he's almost never online

so, i can't contact him, i can't ask him out, i'm thinking about him at least twice or thrice a day and I wanna get him out of my head!
I don't wanna keep thinking about him! he's nice but he's not everything in my life!
help!

2006-11-25 17:34:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have always concidered myself outgoing and happy... so did all of my friends, but that was in high school back at my home country.
Im a sophomore in college now I have been here for a while, I ;ove it here, I have everything, I have wonderfull parents, a perfect boyfriend, and getting straight A's at school..

... but I cant stop crying about I dont know what every single night. Its drivingme insane, and my boyfriend... I try not to be around my family aas much, because I am pissed about who knows what all the time.. and I know I m not a pleasant company..

My bf tells me that I am miserable all the time, and we end up fighting about it a lot.. He loves me very much .. but I know he hates what Ive turned into .. I hate what Ive turned into ...

I hate myself and I dont know how to stop being like this ... I do workout, I dont have friends, and even if I did ... I dont want everyone to think Im pathetic stupid and helpless... Im pretty much doing that myself...

2006-11-25 17:34:20 · 14 answers · asked by notsome 2 in Singles & Dating

i've known this girl for about 2 months. 4 days ago she told me that i was being too controllin bcos i always want her to hang out with me and call me and to b der wen i call. she also found out from my actions that i liked her mor than a friend (true and told her that) and she told me that she didn't feel the same. she sed that it's getting weird and doesn't want to call me nemor. i'm givin her some space bcos she asked for it. i can get over liking her mor than a friend bcos it's only started about a week ago. if i need to giv her sum space, how long shud i w8? how do i make up with her and be her normal guy friend again? wat shud i giv her as a make up gift (do i need to giv her a gift)? or does this mean that she wants to end the friendship forever? (btw, she is leaving for a holiday on dec 9). [lol, srry for the millionth question)

2006-11-25 17:34:09 · 3 answers · asked by kiko m 1 in Friends

I'm divorced, 41 yrs. old, have 2 children over 18 and a grandson, whenever I meet someone I feel I can be interested in they turn around and try to make it instantly sexual. I don't dress provocatively and to be honest I'm very over weight and over 45% gray if I don't dye my hair regularly. I'm not desperate for a sexual partner.

2006-11-25 17:34:02 · 10 answers · asked by dnisey64 3 in Singles & Dating

She needs to be informed without being offended somehow. She is very defensive and would probably be upset if I just came out and told her. Plus, we aren't close friends. Any tactful or super clever ideas?

2006-11-25 17:32:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-25 17:31:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I was about to have raw sex with my wife and then i saw a little worm come out her butt,at first i was like wtf and i almost vomited but then i took a deep breath looked at how horny it made me feel and then i banged the hell out of my wife.

Now then i have a few questions
1.Why did a worm come out my woman's butt
2.What was the worm doing in there
3.Was it a good idea to continue the sex
4.Could it be that she is from pakistan and i am from Alabama

2006-11-25 17:31:55 · 13 answers · asked by East Side till I die 1 in Singles & Dating

He is in only one of my classes, so i dont see him often, but heres da story:
He asked me out, I said no. But he keeps starin @ me! He even wrote me a love note sayin multiple times that he LOVES ME! Ugh! I've told him how i felt. And Im angry. How do I let the kid no he doesn't have a chance?

2006-11-25 17:31:12 · 7 answers · asked by Lime 2 in Singles & Dating

according to black females, i am an attractive black male...understanding the rarity of black male/white female relationships, how can i appropriately and successfully approach a white female and show interest in dating and such...What factors affect response. As a white female, how would you like to be approached by a black male who is interested in getting to know you!

2006-11-25 17:30:37 · 7 answers · asked by MrMeT00 2 in Singles & Dating

she said that it was on sale half off; free shovels with every purchase. Its in the basement.

Then i remember about a couple of weeks ago. i told her just get me season tickets to all the atlanta games for christmas. she said that were your going, you wont need them.

2006-11-25 17:30:34 · 14 answers · asked by ill take it straight with no ice 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I had made a profile on this network called "ORKUT" like 6 months back..and many random ppl started adding and writing me testimonials n stuff..like mainly guys...i didnt tell my BF this bcoz i dint want him to feel insecure after seeing al that...and so i hid it..and i wudnt reply to all of them..just to some..on a freindly basis..and i wud chat with some of them...but not anything dirty at all...and recently my BF found out about my PRofile and he got really really upset and mad...IS HE MAKING TOO BIG A DeAL OF IT? Or is it totally my fault for hiding it from him coz i didnt want him to get jealous n upset...??? I was gona cancel the account soon anways....HE is sooo upset and shocked and lost all his trust for me..what do i do...I already deletd the account ..but he has lost all his trust for me and is realy upset..what DO I DOOO PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

2006-11-25 17:30:29 · 12 answers · asked by Har S 1 in Singles & Dating

What are the expectatives about it?
What do you give to the relationship to stay balanced?
Or do you think only on yourself?

2006-11-25 17:30:03 · 8 answers · asked by Gabrio 7 in Weddings

2006-11-25 17:29:47 · 13 answers · asked by sissy rae 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how can i get him to do 4 play with out telling him

2006-11-25 17:28:21 · 15 answers · asked by braveheart3g 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl I like a lot, and she knows it, recently came back into my life. She said she was lonley and looking for someone and invited me to come hang out with her(she lives in a diffrent town). When I went to visit her she was friendly but woulndt sleep with me. Then I asked her If we should start a steady relationship and then she said we live in two diffrent towns and it wouldnt work. When I would go to kiss her before I left she seemed to pull away and sort of be disgusted. Whats up with this?

2006-11-25 17:28:07 · 19 answers · asked by kindaworried 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 17:28:05 · 11 answers · asked by SEXY TRISH 2 in Singles & Dating

i really love her but i dont know how to say what i feel..because she likes another guy..but the feeling keeps bursting inside of me and i can't help it..

2006-11-25 17:25:20 · 6 answers · asked by sizzle4217 1 in Friends

My younger cousin has a severe drinking problem and I am really close to him. We grew up like siblings. Just for reference hes 18 and I am twenty. My whole family knows he's drinking, but they don't realize how bad it is. I am scared he's going to hurt someone as in driving while drunk, but I can't force him to go to rehab and neither can his parents because he's eighteen and 6'6". I need advice. I've tried talking to him and I've supported him through AA once already. I've even threatened him to call the cops if I even hear he's drinking and driving. Nothing is stoping him. Please help.

2006-11-25 17:25:05 · 13 answers · asked by espressoaddict22 3 in Family

2006-11-25 17:23:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and i think he likes me too, or did but ..?

heres what happened:

this guy at this job i started at ,makes me buss his table competely , i am suppose to be a hotsess and he is a server and the only time iam supposed buss a table if we are busy and we were busy so i was bussing his table but then we were dead and he wanted me to clean his table while he was sitting on his *** talking to other co- workers-i confronted him about this along with another co-worker- he is a nice guy but i felt along with the other co worker that he was taking advantage of us ,so i confronted him, i told him i dont mine doing my job as long as i am doing only what i am suppose to do


would this decrease the chances of him liking me or GUYS WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF THE GIRL YOU LIKED PUT YOU IN THIS SITUATION?

2006-11-25 17:22:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am living in Canada now. My father was born in Buk Czechoslovakia, where my grandfather had farm. Whole family was German speaking, but I heard that my grangrandfather came from France. Lets get together (at least o the web).

2006-11-25 17:22:37 · 1 answers · asked by frank r 1 in Family

I've never had a boyfriend or a romantic love, though i've wanted to. any insight is greatly appreciated.

2006-11-25 17:21:57 · 16 answers · asked by Sam 2 in Singles & Dating

If you are to spend your life with someone, raise kids with them.... how much does one's personal beliefs play into that?? What are you thoughts on this issue?? Could you still go through with it knowing that these differences could potentially cause conflicts throughout the marriage?

2006-11-25 17:21:31 · 11 answers · asked by BaseballGrrl 6 in Singles & Dating

My bf recently agreed to help me pay for my first car. I'm excited because I've never had my own car. The car is my dream car. A 2007 Mazda RX-8. However when we got to the dealership he told me he wouldn't help me pay for the car because he thought it was too flashy. I'm like are you kidding me? He said he doesn't want his girlfriend to have a car that draws too much attention. However I hate all the cars he's suggested. Now he drives a escalade and his sister drives a mustang. I'm frustrated because I would love to go the "independent woman" route and pay for the damn thing myself but I can't afford it. Am I wrong for being angry at him for not helping me with the car? And how can I change his mind?

2006-11-25 17:21:31 · 11 answers · asked by Elizabeth C 2 in Singles & Dating

My boy friend does it and it drives me nuts.

2006-11-25 17:21:29 · 9 answers · asked by krissy 5 in Singles & Dating

well my ex girl stills wants me i don't but she wants to have sex with me but she is been dating other guys but i want to have sex cause it s been a while and well i don't care who do i do it with but the point its i got 2 days to say yea or to say no i got 50-50 and well i don't want to ask my best friends cause well they know what i been throught and im scare to tell them so people tell me should i do it ( i ask her if she has sex with other guys she said that seriously no) and i don't to believe her or no help

2006-11-25 17:20:23 · 14 answers · asked by Big Boss 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't want it to go further than S*E*X but what do I say?

2006-11-25 17:20:21 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating