how can i get him to do 4 play with out telling him
2006-11-25 17:28:21 · 15 answers · asked by braveheart3g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
6 years ago I had to teach my older boyfriend , who is now 52, how to please me in bed. At his age you'd think he'd know something about this but no women had ever taken the time. I had so much fun showing him what I like and practicing it over and over. The trick is to be able to talk about it to him about it but if you can't you can slowly move his hands and head to the direction you want him to go. Make sure you let him no he's at the spot you want him to be by my moaning and saying how good it feels. If it's not quite right, sexily say that feels so good try the spot just over a bit or something along that line. You can just move your body so he adjusts the position. He'll start getting the hints and will eagerly await your next movement or voiced direction you want him to go. Men love to know that they are pleasing you, it's a big turn on to know they can get you to a orgasm. Have fun with exploring and getting to know what each of you like.
2006-11-25 18:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from a guy point of view. I am not sure what you have tried doing in the past, but dressing real sexy and teasing him a bit, and doing some foreplay on him is a start. Or, a lot of guys are just ignorant, and just tell him, if he wants to have sex he will do it. :) Good luck
2006-11-26 01:32:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you do is just take it very slow and start touching yourself and then take it to the next level by slowly start touching him if he pulls away then stop if not keep on doing what you are doing start with a really light touch that will get him in the mood for forplay
2006-11-26 01:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by sexy_hot_gay_dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could tie him up and tease him, take it slow and make him beg. Then the next time you can say "my turn!" You can also say you not "ready" yet and say it hurts because your not warmed up enough. Hope that helps, good luck!
2006-11-26 01:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him... it will save a whole lot of time and chances are he'll enjoy it too... or you COULD go about hinting at it and it will take a whole lot longer for him to work out what you're really saying.
2006-11-26 01:30:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm if you dont tell him how is he supposed to know. he most likely thinks you go through the motions in the same way that he does which is totally inncorrect talk to him of suffer your choice
2006-11-26 01:30:50 · answer #6 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try walkin around the house in a wife beater (tank top) and a thong , it works for me.
2006-11-26 01:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by sissy rae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him what you want. Do it to him. When he does it, tell him you like it.
2006-11-26 01:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by fancyname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have 2 tell him otherwise just start it urself!
2006-11-26 01:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lead his hands and lips to places where you want them to go when he attempts to penetrate -- gently of course
2006-11-26 01:31:37 · answer #10 · answered by Abraham K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋