Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

Well, my first love was a very sexy and charming latino guy. We were togther for 2 years . we had a very rocky and impulsive relationship and he had cheated on me several times and he was often in troble with the law. He broke my heart because he changed himself and completely abandoned me just to fit in with his stupid thug friends. He caused me so much pain and did something very tramatic to me.Its really hard for me to trust men still to this very day.

2006-11-25 17:18:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems like there's always a fight in my family, nobody can mind their own business, everyone has an opinion on what they should do with their kids, husbands etc, & the holidays are sometimes messed up. I don't know what the heck is wrong with my family, anyone got the same problem?

2006-11-25 17:18:42 · 11 answers · asked by gitsliveon24 5 in Family

still work in this day and age?Do women still appreciate when a man shows respect to them?or do they prefer to be slapped around?

2006-11-25 17:17:11 · 10 answers · asked by troy b 1 in Singles & Dating

I filed for divorce last month. Husband and I are still living together, with our 2 children. It has been a living hell. For the most part, I try my best to not to interact much with him, because it hurts too much. His continuous infidelity is tearing me apart.

He feels he's been wounded because I filed for divorce. He blames me for his cheating, and has not apologized because he feels he was totally justified. He hasn't done anything to try and rectify the situation or help me to trust him. In fact, he's still sleeping around.

Will he ever own up to what he's done? Will he ever stop blaming me?

2006-11-25 17:16:53 · 21 answers · asked by MaknMeCrzy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How can men be content to sit in a dirty house with six weeks washing lying on the bathroom floor? I don't get it. Seriously, is there some biological or psychological difference between men and women on this issue, or is it essentially a matter of conditioning since childhood?

2006-11-25 17:16:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just nutted out tonight and I love seeing how long I can go without my girlfriend finding out that I have one-night stands with girls much prettier than my girlfriend (who is also pretty, just not as pretty as the girls I hit on in bars).

2006-11-25 17:15:22 · 18 answers · asked by Evan C 1 in Singles & Dating

I was kissed unexpectantlyand it felt soo good ,it felt passionate ans sexily sweet what is it that makes it feel do good emotionally and physically?

2006-11-25 17:14:35 · 3 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy i have been seeing for about 8 months even though he is a controlling kind of guy and i know i did now want or need a guy like this in my life...and the way he talked to me and treated me sometimes was really bad..i have grandchildren and i want them in my life and he wanted me more to his self all the time..i went down to be with my mom who is dying in a nursing home for thanksgiving and i would of liked to been with him..it hurts to see my mom in her condition...but i come back and i call there and he has another women there who says she is his girlfriend, and has been for the last 2 weeks..well i was with him just a few days ago and i guess he was just lying to me..i think he got mad because i was going to be with my mom...he already informed me he was not going to raise any more kids, grandkids...so why am i hurting over this...i guess it is the way she answered the phone and what she said and he did not have guts enough to tell me anything..any help will be appreciated

2006-11-25 17:14:29 · 7 answers · asked by sanangel 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 17:13:13 · 4 answers · asked by confused13 1 in Family

A day before thanksgiving I bailed my sister-in-law out of jail. I was promised that I would be paid back today. So I called him and told him I would be there to pick up my money, and got an excuse and told to call back later. After three hours of phone tag, I got angry, told them I was tired of the lies, tired of the games, I just want my money back. He got snippy with me, defended his wife, so I told them that I was through helping them out (this is a frequent thing with them) and that I will be calling his boss to find out when he's getting paid, so I can get my money back. It's a long family drama, they are horrible parents, running from CPS in three states, I'm their social worker for WI and on Friday, after all this happend, I turned over their case to my supervisor to assign someone else. I'm literally done. But I didn't stop there. In his last phone call to me (to tell another lie), I went on a tirade about his wife. Everything I've wanted to say, I finally said.

2006-11-25 17:12:29 · 21 answers · asked by Hollynfaith 6 in Family

isnt it annoying listening to people talk about their break-ups with their bf/gf?...i really dont know what to say, i just say "yep" or "bummer that sucks"...all in the meantime they are just yappin and yappin. u guys do the same thing or u guys actually have stuff to say...my ear hurts!

2006-11-25 17:11:47 · 10 answers · asked by T.oOver 1 in Singles & Dating

what happened leading up to it ?

2006-11-25 17:11:12 · 8 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Singles & Dating

How many ppl here have had a affair on line and what happen ? was it real love ?

2006-11-25 17:10:12 · 23 answers · asked by Savannah P 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i just had my 17th b-day party tonight. i invited 20 friends, 14 said they could come. (ive known all these ppl for all my high school years and its my final birthday before we all separate for college)
my best friend comes about 10 min. late.... but 3hours pass, no one else comes. i called 3 of them, but their parents all said "they went out". i sent my friend home early and ive been crying ever since. what do u guys think i should say to them when i see them again?

2006-11-25 17:09:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know I'm charming, and handsome and wonderful,
But I have one or more stalkers on the net.
What should I do?

2006-11-25 17:09:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is love enough to keep a relationship going? What if all you do is fight? Should you stay with someone just because you love them? What are your thoughts on this?

2006-11-25 17:08:05 · 12 answers · asked by cheeseprincess10 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my partner of 3 years have moved to australia and are loving it,we are going to spend christmas in newzealand with his family and i am totally dreading it,all they do is drink!! day and night,they can sumtimes last fr up to 3 days in a row,i dont mind having a drink one or 2 nights im there but am not into big drinking binges.we are going for two weeks,i no that if i say no they are going to think im a snob and will outright talk about me (i no they dont like me anyway for taking their son away from them) i dont have any family there that i can go to and i do not have enough money to stay sumshere else which i wouldnt do anyway coz i know theyd think i was being a huge snob. what do i do??i cant talk to my partner about this because hes just going to love the drinking!! HELP,Please awnswetr seriously as if you were in my posistion

2006-11-25 17:08:00 · 8 answers · asked by rosita 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My name is Dan and I am 16. I'm working on a movie project for school. The point of this film is to show that love does not matter on where you're from, just on personalities. I'll ask later if the full idea/script if its good but I want to have a boy from my school (public) to date a girl from a Catholic School. During the film, people will have mixed reactions. His and her friends will wonder why he likes someone from "that school" (and more to come later). His parents are pleased but her parents are not so happy since he is from a public school (her father is semi-strict). So, I need a school uniform to put into my movie. I've looked at webshots, google images, and photobucket, but I can't seem to find the perfect one.

So this is where I need your help. If you know a good uniform, post it here. If you have a school uniform, please send a photo link of it (to photobucket or something). I would like to see someone in the uniform but if you don't want to, just lay it on your bed or

2006-11-25 17:07:54 · 2 answers · asked by moviemaker1990 1 in Singles & Dating

He want everything to go his way. I am very clean and last nite he told me to get in the shower while he picked up a pizza, like I dont have enough sense to take a shower. I had only been home from work for 10 minutes.
I am not allowed to ask him what time he got off work, He accuses me of being controlling. He works at nite and comes home anywhere between 5 am and 8 am.
He asks me what time I plan to go to bed, where I have been, looks at my credit card statement which was laying on the couch. He reads my newspaper and leaves it all over the house.
He is being a little over bearing. Should I just get used to it or is he becoming a creep?

2006-11-25 17:06:54 · 6 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

(Nothing too serious)

2006-11-25 17:05:18 · 6 answers · asked by Eric J 1 in Singles & Dating

What is a good?
x-mas presant for a 14 year old girl really into photography umm loves the comp. and like MP3 players and that stuff

2006-11-25 17:04:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

OK theres this girl at my high school right I really like her and she knows that but shes waiting for me to make a move
but everytime I am around her I get all quiet and shy and cant find the words to say.I really like this girl and would really like to have her as my girlfriend.somebody please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-25 17:03:04 · 13 answers · asked by pimpin 2 in Singles & Dating

I have no idea about dating can you tell me what a good age is to start, everybody else has a boyfriend(s) but I'm only 14, a freshman in high school I still have plenty of time

2006-11-25 17:01:46 · 16 answers · asked by jml 3 in Singles & Dating

okay okay.. im only 17 and when i like a girl its like fully.. its like i take it seriously. people sometimes tell me to like have fun enjoy teenage life and not to love until when i get older.. but somehow i do enjoy my teenage life.. but i take relationship seriously.. i do have fun during my relationship then next thing you know fall inlove with this girl.and yea..kinda wierd how a teenager loves like an adult..NOw this girl that i love broke up with me twice like every 2 weeks people say have fun and enjoy her. and i do but i take it really seriously.. now this girl that broke my heart and now she wants to go back with me for the second time..im just afraid that if i do i would just get my heart broken again.. should i go for it..?? and is me normal for most of the teenager??

2006-11-25 16:59:58 · 19 answers · asked by mike s 2 in Singles & Dating

The girl I love as recently gone into a wheelchair which will become permanent. Obviously her emotions are everywhere and she's starting to think her disability means I'm too good for her and I deserve someone who can offer more. She knows I'm crazy about her I've never felt like this about anyone.. We knew she would be in a wheelchair sooner or later, so I did a lot of thinking and research and realized what I'd be getting myself into, and it didn't worry me not one bit. Now the time is here and she's in her wheelchair and it hasn't affected the way I feel. She's feeling really low and is saying we shouldn't be together because I can do better. I would chose her over any other girl on this planet. No matter how much I tell her I can't seem to convince her. I know she loves me and I love her so it wouldn't make sense to be apart. How do I make her realize her disability will not make me go off her, fall out of love with her or want to leave her and that there is nobody I want but her?

2006-11-25 16:59:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my off and on ex broke up 2 weeks ago! we been off and for 2yrs. He broke up with me because he said his family doesnt think we should be together. but the next day he told me "the reason we broke up is because i flirt with a lot of girls and i dont want to hurt you!" then he tells me "you know i love you"! i finally got over him and i found pictures of us and now i kinda miss him!

2006-11-25 16:59:15 · 22 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

When a girl(acquiantance) smiles at you provacatively(teeth showing,eye sparkle,etc....)is it generally a good thing?Do they just do it to be polite?or is there another meaning?It happened to me in the parking lot on my way into the health club.The smile i described is the one the girl gave me.

2006-11-25 16:58:35 · 11 answers · asked by troy b 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this guy for almost three years. and it seems as if he does not have any compassion or feeling in the things that he do. Now I loved this man. But I had to let him go. He started staying out all night. and sometimes he did not come home at all. I just found out that he were sleeping with at least three other women. The pain I am going thru not is so great.
I took all of his clothes and threw them out. I am done. my heart is so heavy. I had to let him go.
He said that he loved me. How could he when he had no respect for my feelings. How could a man go and sleep with another woman and come lay next to you and tell you that he loves you. when he were out doing only gods know.
I took all his clothes and tossed them out the door.
I refruse to let a man treat me like crap. No matter how much I care or love him.
How do I get over this ache in my heart,
He is no longer welcome in my home. But I heart all the same.

2006-11-25 16:58:15 · 14 answers · asked by Diamond 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this girl is my co-worker, and we are keep makin eye contacts

we r both at same ages and we are both average guy and girl

when we make eye contacts, she doesnt smile at me or anything, its just plain look w/ out any expressions on face. and i also look at her like tat

but wen i smile at her, she usually smiles back at me
or sometimes she smiles at me first

hmmm, wat is this sign? i dont think she got a crush on me, but probably an interest?

2006-11-25 16:57:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's been almost a year since my divorce and I'm really aching to get back out there and maybe start dating again. I've been dragged to the bars and I truly hate that scene and don't wish to go that route dating (as all my friends think this is the only way to meet women). I live in a smaller town so there isn't really a good venue for meeting singles and I fear the internet thing to death. I'm over the whole divorce now, but I feel that now I'm very restrictive in what qualities I want to look for in a woman. Fill me in folks......where do I go from here?

2006-11-25 16:56:30 · 8 answers · asked by Bill B 2 in Singles & Dating