It's been almost a year since my divorce and I'm really aching to get back out there and maybe start dating again. I've been dragged to the bars and I truly hate that scene and don't wish to go that route dating (as all my friends think this is the only way to meet women). I live in a smaller town so there isn't really a good venue for meeting singles and I fear the internet thing to death. I'm over the whole divorce now, but I feel that now I'm very restrictive in what qualities I want to look for in a woman. Fill me in folks......where do I go from here?
2006-11-25 16:56:30 · 8 answers · asked by Bill B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Poor bill. You know I'm terminally married so I really shouldn't answer but have many single friends so I'm gonna give it a shot.
The ones who are doing the best ARE doing a little on line dating but only at the best sites (like just pick one and if you are out for marriage try one that goes for that like Happymarriage.com by tickle). But they are getting their best stuff OUT of the bars. So you are right there.
Small towns are hell but try getting into some things that you always wanted to do before in a larger town close to you. Try skydiving (if that's your thing) classes in American Sign (no joke buddy - lotsa women there) poetry, and other decent places where you will find SOBER and distracted women. You will be the cutest thing around and they won't know what hit em.
The whole idea in bird watching is to to find out where they congregate. Go where your interests are and you will have fun and meet new people at the same time. I'm in your corner, Bill
2006-11-25 17:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by outdone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is a good advice...Not to Internet dating to me is for looser and you are not a looser so...Why I say this since the Inter dating start I always believe is for what I mention before I done just to proof to everyone that I know that is not the best idea let me tell you I met all kinds of people very wealthy professional smart but low self stem etc...Here it goes again if you are not ready you just not ready that even the bar scene will look to bored for you...Bars is not the best places to start looking to... They are just to pick up some one for fun only ..I recommend just forget about dating don't think about it just start to do what you like to do the most or what you will love to do take a class at school, anything that is learning etc. When you are not looking is where things hap pend. Just live each day like is the best day you ever live and if you are happy you will attract positive people and good ones. Take a trip to anywhere you always wish to go is a good advice to just don't worry what people say or what they want you to do. do what you know is good and is right. Good luck!!!
2006-11-25 17:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try the internet! I have been on match.com and yahoo personals and had good luck with both. I tried eharmony, but didn't like how it works. I am with you--I don't want to meet men in bars and I don't meet any at work, so online dating was the one good place I could think of. Definitely be picky, but give women with potential a chance.
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2016-10-13 03:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out at Barnes & Noble bookstore. Attend a nice church. DO NOT do the internet. Hope this helps a little. MP
2006-11-25 17:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by marjorie P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u shouldnt look 4 a girl just wait when its time ull find the rite 1..
(if u dont mind takin that from a 14-year-old...)
2006-11-25 17:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its freaky man good luck
2006-11-25 16:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by Biker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋