me and my off and on ex broke up 2 weeks ago! we been off and for 2yrs. He broke up with me because he said his family doesnt think we should be together. but the next day he told me "the reason we broke up is because i flirt with a lot of girls and i dont want to hurt you!" then he tells me "you know i love you"! i finally got over him and i found pictures of us and now i kinda miss him!
2006-11-25 16:59:15 · 22 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's always hard to let go of someone that you love. If it were truely love a part of you will always love and care for them. You've got to get out, spend time with your friends, if you devoted a lot of time to that person you've got to also rediscover who you are and learn to be independent. I am with the same guy I've been with off and on for almost 10 years, we started dating when we were 12, we've been through it all. Lots of stupid break-ups, but they were good, because they helped me see just who I was and who I wanted to be. Hope I helped!
2006-11-25 17:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohmygosh, girl u definately deserve someone better than a guy who starts and stops things when he feels like it! he's taking advantage of u and even though he may have been a good guy at first, hes clearly taking ur feelings for granted. don't let him the next time he talks to u or asks u out again, tell him that u dont think its right for either of u and that its best that, for now, u 2 keep ur distance. he's hurting u and doesnt even care! well tell urself that ur better than that and that theres a lucky guy out there with ur name on him whos never gonna hurt u like this. try to keep busy so u dont think of this guy and do things tt u really enjoy and make u feel better about urself. before u know t, ull be wayy over him and even looking at those pictures wont be enough to turn u back.
u miss the good times, i get tt. but dont forget the bad ones either, cause thatll remind you why ur single and lovin it. gdluck :)
2006-11-26 01:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by Meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know... I'm having the same problem trying to heal a broken heart. I think really only time will heal the pain. It's hard to drown out the pain when you're still in love with someone and things don't work out. I am keeping busy and trying to keep my mind occupied with other things... it's helping a little. Maybe find something new to learn about or do to keep your mind off of him... and quit looking at the pictures until you're sure you're really over him. Good Luck!
2006-11-26 01:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by Skye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can get over someone in 2 weeks that you say you have loved for 2 years, I have to question if it was really love. He is telling you that he cares for you but not ready to be committed to you. Go out with your friends, keep yourself busy, put the pictures away for awhile, and give both of you some time to see how you feel after being apart. Couples tend to get back together before really assessing their feelings.
2006-11-26 01:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey,if he broke up with you and told you that his parents didn't think ya'll should be together,then he said it is because he flirts with other girls,and then he told you that he loved you ,don't worry about him!! You can do better. don't get mad get even. get you another boyfriend. eventually you will forget about him. you should keep the pics to remember how much fun he was. then again, take pics with a new boyfriend and you will remember how much fun he was,too.The right boy will come along trust me. if he tells different reasons why he broke up with you something isn't right. I would talk to him and try to still be friends with him, but don't ignore him.It is normal to miss your boyfriend especially if he broke up with you. I am so sorry that he dumped you but you can probally do better anyway!! I hope my answer helps you.
2006-11-26 01:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by Kelsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i know it hard but you will get over him. just go out with the girls. have a girl night out. do you have a hobby? to keep your mind busy. also get rid of all the picture of you guys. because it's will hurt more. you are to young to feel like that. you will find someone else. also it's like he letting his family pick who he can be with and that not right. so i would say move on and forget about him. so i hope my advise help you. good luck
2006-11-26 01:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to get over him it will only make you remember him more just take you're days one at a time and get involved with activities that you never expirenced with him so there are no reminders of him be open to other people and soon he will have moved into a distance memory and you will only remember him on certain occasions but you have already moved on with you're life. I have been in you're shoes and it was a ten yr. relationship.Much Luck to you.
2006-11-26 02:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by lytesdelite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chica, you need to move on. If this guy lets his family decide that you are not good enough,then he is not a strong man,and you don't need to put up with that behavior from his family. And if he openly admits that he is flirting with alot of girls then that is disrespectful as well if he is suppose to love only you. He is playing you. Get on with your life and lose this guy.
2006-11-26 01:26:00 · answer #8 · answered by Shortydeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of everything that reminds you of him and Start going out more often and have a good time with your friends. You'll know when you're totally over him because then it'll feel like your whole relationship with him happened to someone else
2006-11-26 01:03:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny I know what you are going through. I was so in love with this guy . Four years later he is giving me false hope. Burn the pics. I do not think that love ever stops. You will find someone that makes you happier like I found in my hubby.
2006-11-26 01:08:23 · answer #10 · answered by jessica h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋