Is love enough to keep a relationship going? What if all you do is fight? Should you stay with someone just because you love them? What are your thoughts on this?
2006-11-25 17:08:05 · 12 answers · asked by cheeseprincess10 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hon, you have to be realistic. Love is not enough to make a relationship last. You have to have things in common, stability finacially and emotionally. You should have a reasonable amount of everything not just one thing to make a relationship last. Sometimes love does fade, you need more than love to make a relationship work. Sometimes when you are fed up with how a mate acts thinks or does whatever, love ain't going to change that fact that everyday life with that person sucks.
2006-11-25 17:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by Erica B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happiness is an essential part of life and relationships. If you are fighting all the time, it could be a sign that you are growing apart. You should try to remember what your relationship felt like in the beginning, and what are the points of stress you have now. Eventually one of you two will meet someone who makes you feel good again, and you won't want to go back to your relationship. So, love is not enough, not these days anyway.
2006-11-26 01:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, love is not enough. There are so many more qualities that are important in a relationship: trust, respect, honesty, integrity, etc. Read all the other questions that people are asking; they all are really asking the same question which is the one that you are asking. People can not be happy if all they ever do is fight. What are you fighting about? I'm sure it goes back to one of the other qualities that I mentioned. You have to decide which qualities are most important to you. What is the "deal breaker" for you?
2006-11-26 01:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't enough not even close. Respect, commitment,honesty, being comfortable with the person, having common interests or beliefs make the road less rocky. If you have gotten to a point when all you do is fight that'a difficult habit to break and only if you both address what is the underlying factor you will probably keep doing it.
2006-11-26 01:14:05 · answer #4 · answered by yogangel7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love is never enough in a relationship. you guys need to talk about your problems and try to stop fighting. when you fight, it doesn't get you anywhere in a relationship.
2006-11-26 01:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by ~*Godz_ANGEL*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to think love was enough to beat everything. but honeslty, i dont think so. well love is enough to make u wanna do anything to be with this person and make u willing to try anything to be happy with him, but its not enough to make u 2 be happy forever.. if u n ur partner are having fights right now, and ur thinking long-term serious relationship, you really should try to talk and work it out.. my mum loves my dad to death and i know its the same the other way round, but my dad has lotsa fights with my mum cause of the tension between her and my paternal grandparents, but my point is that her love for him wasnt enough to stop all the years of fights so if u really love him, work it out. go for counselling,anything, but never think these problems will solve themselves, cause they rarely do.. gdluck and hope u 2 work out all of ur squabbles. :)
2006-11-26 01:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by Meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love,trust,want2,and a determination. Even if u fight all the time. She make sure he/she knows how much u love them and want to be with them.
2006-11-26 01:10:17 · answer #7 · answered by FreshmanFranchize06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No love is not enough. Leave him and start over with a new guy you have more in common with.
2006-11-26 01:13:28 · answer #8 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is all that u need like the song (im not really a big beetles fan tho...)
but if u fight that much id say u really cant b in love... srry if thatwas rude 2 say but i calls'm like i sees'm
2006-11-26 01:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A personal relationship with Jesus Christ would help the fighting.
2006-11-26 01:10:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋