okay okay.. im only 17 and when i like a girl its like fully.. its like i take it seriously. people sometimes tell me to like have fun enjoy teenage life and not to love until when i get older.. but somehow i do enjoy my teenage life.. but i take relationship seriously.. i do have fun during my relationship then next thing you know fall inlove with this girl.and yea..kinda wierd how a teenager loves like an adult..NOw this girl that i love broke up with me twice like every 2 weeks people say have fun and enjoy her. and i do but i take it really seriously.. now this girl that broke my heart and now she wants to go back with me for the second time..im just afraid that if i do i would just get my heart broken again.. should i go for it..?? and is me normal for most of the teenager??
2006-11-25 16:59:58 · 19 answers · asked by mike s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say play the field, while you can.
2006-11-25 17:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this girl is really worth being a girlfriend over then sure, go ahead. but if she isnt then, find someone else that can really connect with you.
I think being serious about relationships is normal, even i would probably take it alittle seriously. besides, around 18 people are mostly matured anyway. And since you are 17, than it really isnt something that you should worry about. just be who you are, and dont worry about it. its who you are and i think taking relationships alittle seriously especially at your age is what teenagers should start doing, because they are SO close to adulthood, like 1 year or 2 closer at 17.
2006-11-25 17:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by Cornelia Anabelle Banana Bo Peep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, here's my life in a nutshell. I started dating my fiance when we were both 12 years old...well, as much 'dating' as our parents would allow us to do (go to the movies, mall, whatever.) I knew from the first month we were together that I loved him. We had very many hard times, and it seemed like the more that we hurt eachother to more and more painful it was to heal afterwards. I think it's a load of crap when adults say that teenagers don't know what love is. Everyone feels love. It's lust and love that people tend to get mixed up, adults and teenagers both. I say just do what your heart tells you to do. If you never get a broken heart, then it means you never allowed yourself to love.
2006-11-25 17:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sweetie i think the country could do with a few more teenagers that think like you and definatly dont think that you are not normal.Im sure your mum would rather have you as you are than coming home steaming drunk in the middle of the night.Have you explained to your mum why you dont like hanging round with your friends?Maybe you could find a few friends who are like you and hang out together like going to the cinemas,ice skating or bowling or even just girlie shopping. I have upmost respect for teenagers like you and hope that there are more of you about in the future.All the best love xx
2016-05-23 03:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's normal for you to be in love at such a young age. I was. If it wasn't for the fact that he kept secrets from me every now and then, we'd probably be engaged now.
Anyway ... she's already broken up with you several times. Why would you want to risk it again? You KNOW she'll just break up with you and you'll end up heartbroken. Why would you want to do that to yourself? You've already been there and done that. Find someone new who won't be so willing to break your heart.
2006-11-25 17:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is normal and refreshing that there are still guys out there that take relationships seriously and not jump from one girl to another. if you really love this girl and she is good to you and you are willing to endure another heart break if it comes then go for it. but if when you guys were together and she treated you like crap then don't get with her again run far away because nobody deserves to be treated like that.
2006-11-25 17:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by lildancer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ive had fellings like i loved girls b4 but i realized that it hasnt been tru (up till recently no further details plz!!) but just chill out dude theres plenty of time 4 love but if a girl doesnt fell the same i dont really think u can call it "love"
but if it makes u feel better i understand what ur felling man dont worry ull make it thru this
2006-11-25 17:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People is right .....you go out and enjoy your teenager life....because right now you're too young to know what love is.....you maybe feel love now...but what i you take it seriously and marry too young....there will be bigger problems down the road....i wouldn't last, (too
young) just enjoy your teenager life .... wild it's good and last.
Best wishes and good luck
2006-11-25 17:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by sherry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you feel is what you feel, sooner or later, you'll find someone who feels the same way. Don't compromise your feelings just because it isn't how your friends feel. She broke your heart once, what makes you think she won't do it again? I say that you should tell her no.
2006-11-25 17:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by Lime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean by adult??
she is older than you
i find that sort of sick
can you not find anybody ur own age
if she brakes up with you, let it go, you dont want to be taken for granted, you should want to be wanted always and not just when they have nothing else to do, or nobody else there
2006-11-25 17:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by Mooshak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea its normal, i think it happens to most teens, and i think u should go for it but if u guys get back together and u think she's gona brake up with u soon, its best for u to brake up with her
2006-11-25 17:05:04 · answer #11 · answered by richyricky07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋