I have been seeing this guy for almost three years. and it seems as if he does not have any compassion or feeling in the things that he do. Now I loved this man. But I had to let him go. He started staying out all night. and sometimes he did not come home at all. I just found out that he were sleeping with at least three other women. The pain I am going thru not is so great.
I took all of his clothes and threw them out. I am done. my heart is so heavy. I had to let him go.
He said that he loved me. How could he when he had no respect for my feelings. How could a man go and sleep with another woman and come lay next to you and tell you that he loves you. when he were out doing only gods know.
I took all his clothes and tossed them out the door.
I refruse to let a man treat me like crap. No matter how much I care or love him.
How do I get over this ache in my heart,
He is no longer welcome in my home. But I heart all the same.
2006-11-25 16:58:15 · 14 answers · asked by Diamond 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry to tell you but he really is taking you for granted is the Nice's thing I can say...Let me tell you. He don't love you and he never will because if he do love you at least a Little he won't never hurt you feelings Love is different and what I read is not even close to be love...Trust me You are better of alone than been with some one that don't love you...Hey take a trip if you can afford to the place always you dream to go.. And you will one day will look back and think... How can I ever love that person you will regret all the time and energy you did wasted with that person... Good luck I hope I help out a little...
2006-11-25 17:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, this guy was not a man. he was a boy! Men do not do these things. Second, join a club. A gym is a good place. You will find a lot of men and one will win your heart. Even e-harmony is a good place to look. You will get a new man in your life and this guy will be a distant jerk.
PS Have your doctor check you for diseases. If he had more than one relationship, check to be sure.
2006-11-25 17:01:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all i want to say. good for you. that what some woman need to do. put down there foot. dont let a man walk all over you. second you will get over this. it's will take time but you will sweetie. just keep your self busy and dont let him back into your life. he a dog and he need to stay in the dog house. just go out with friends or have a girls night out. you have your family to get you though this and your friends too. so i wouldnt worry about it. you put him his place and you should be proud. good for you. but i would go to the doctor because i am not saying you have anything. but to be on the safe side. good luck and god bless you.
2006-11-25 17:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by Melda R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No man that really loves you will sleep around on you, hes used you and taken you for granted long enough, although I know it hurt to dump his a s s, thats just what he needed.
You will find happiness again, and be treated like the princess you are...
Hope this makes you feel a little better
2006-11-25 17:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys use the "I love You" to get what they want. This guy used it on you and got what he wanted and then used it on other girls also. Good thing you dumped him. Be sure of love before you jump in the sack with a guy then you won't get hurt like this again. There is more to a relationship than the physical. Try to go and do things to keep your mind off of him and visit with friends and family.
2006-11-25 17:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go girl!!! Good for you!!!! Remember this hurt that you feel and don't let him come back to hurt you again. You deserve to meet and be with someone that will treat you with respect. There are men out there (and women too) that are faithful. People can only treat you the way you let them.
2006-11-25 17:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey good for you , you did the right thing men do these things cause they are DOGS the only one the chose not to hurt is them self cause when they do feel pain they cry like a real sissy so don't worry your heart will heal very soon and then you go and get yourself a real MAN
2006-11-25 17:08:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's an old saying: men use the word love to get sex and women use sex to get love.
And Dr. Phil says we show people how to treat us.
If someone doesn't treat you the way you want to be treated or feel you deserve to be treated, why do you love that person? What is your "love" for this person based on?
We have to love ourselves first, dear. And when we do, we don't let people treat us like we're ca-ca under their shoes.
Try reading self-help books, listening to uplifting and self-affirming music, and/or finding a good therapist.
Good luck!
2006-11-25 18:50:45 · answer #8 · answered by bliss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was a bastard of the scum of this earth. He can go burn in hell. I wish u well mam' i hope u will find true love and have a happy life. Try meeting ppl through ur freinds. They will be more tru cuz u kno they are ur freinds freinds and ur freinds are crap so there freinds wont be crap either .Confusing lol but tru
2006-11-25 17:27:16 · answer #9 · answered by magicalrune 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have cut all the toes out of his socks and cut the crotch out of all of his pants wouldn't take away any of the pain you fill but would make you fill a bit better
2006-11-25 17:05:09 · answer #10 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋